My boyfriend wants baby but i dont and he havent been using condoms on purpose what do i do first...before a pregnancy test how do i know if i am pregnant?
2006-10-24 05:25:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
what r u 2 do ?duh sex with out protection usually makes a baby.not to mention that's a good way to catch an std. if you didn't want a baby, you sure were acting like you did.who told you getting pregnant is the boyfriends choice?you are headed down a very long and troubled road if you can't think for yourself and you don't make better decisions for your self.To hell with what your boyfriend wants, let him have a baby.
2006-10-24 05:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by punkin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know your boyfriend wants a baby so much, why do you have sex with him without a condom and even though you aren't using a rubber why didn't you get on the pill?, anyway you both need to speak to a family councellor. You can see signs of pregnancy depending how long you've been pregnant, for example, breast tenderness, morning sickness, increase in appettite or if you have missed your period, best way to find out is to take a test. Have a good long talk with your boyfriend and use a condom.
2006-10-24 12:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by kimmie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously youre to young to be having sex becuase if you didnt want a baby, you would have told your partner to wear the condom or no sex and yourself there is a thing called birth control. There is no way of knowing you are pregnant until you take a test because some women dont have symptons right away
2006-10-24 14:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by onehotmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you didn't want a baby why didn't you take a visit to the health department and get birth control?!? You need to be responsable.
Really to know that you are pregnant, you have to play the waiting game. After about a month from the time you tought you were pregnant, take a pregnancy test.
2006-10-24 12:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all find out if your pregnant. Second of all refuse to have sex with him if he won't use a condom. If this isn't the case, you could always start taking the pill without him knowing. I think your being sensible saying you dont want a child, and I don't really think he understands whats going to happen if you are or do get pregnant. Try talking things through with him, and good luck.
2006-10-24 12:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by Amy D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he really loved you he woulnt make u do anything u do want. If ur not ready 4 a kid ur not ready and it would be stupid and so, so hard on that kid if it was born 2 a mom who wasnt ready for it so either get him 2 wear a condom or dump him, he obously doesnt have much respect for what you want.
And if u feel like staying with him even after he keeps not carin abt ur feelings then go behind his back and take birth controle pills.
thats considering ur not preganant yet, if u r well good luck is all i can say..
wat age r u bty..?
2006-10-24 14:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by ally_h_22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap yourself for having sex with him anyway. If you don't want a baby, why would you knowingly have sex without protection. It's like not wanting to commit suicide but playing roulette.
If you haven't missed your period, there is no real way to tell. Get to the doctor quick, if it's been in the last 2 days, you might be able to take the morning after pill.
Best of luck
2006-10-24 14:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by J L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety you should go to a GYN and find out from there. If you are they will give you options on what to do and you take it from there. ANd if your ready to bring a baby into the world you should prepare yourself for motherhood. Cause it aint easy. Good luck. And make sure if you do keep it that your boyfriend id 100% behind you in supporting you dont do this on your own. Cause men come and go.
2006-10-24 12:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by jenlatina914 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd definitely try to get a pregnancy test... Noone here can confirm anything for you. You can also go to 'Planned Parenthood'... they'd be able to assist you with the test. Whatever you do, DO NOT let your boyfriend convince you to have that baby unless you're ABSOLUTELY certain that you want it. It's easy for him to say that right now.
2006-10-24 12:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by monie0078 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want a baby and you let him not use a condom? Bad move.
Wait until you miss your period to take a test. And get yourself on some reliable form of birth control if you intend to have sex!
2006-10-24 12:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by dr_imzadi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋