2006-10-24 05:07:34 · 10 answers · asked by Sexy Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't, without a good reason. This is going to be a very complicated road. The first thing you have to do is figure out where you're going to live. Unless you live at a place owned by you or your family, the person initiating the break up will be the one to move out. Do you have a place you can move out with your kids? Can you afford to move out with your kids? Did he do something that would make you not want the kids with him alone?
Think about the stress you're going to put the kids through. I know they're probably young, but in the long run it's going to be very difficult for them. I recommend that unless he's beating you or something malicious like that, you seek counseling first.
2006-10-24 06:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by calliope320 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you break up with him then your kids will suffer because of this. Then you have to go through a divorce and who would have custody over the children. You may have to stay with him until the kids are grown. Not only that but can you afford to take care of the children you may not be financially stabled just think about this he could have full custody over your kids. Good luck ! i hope this helps
2006-10-24 05:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it doesn't work, then it doesn't work. I would try to go through counseling first, but if you don't feel like being with that person anymore, then do not compromise your happiness! You both can still be great parents, just teach your children what a healthy realtionship is, not an abnormal one.
2006-10-24 05:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by dollface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and tell them whats up and how you feel. i mean why do you want to leave?
After 5 years they at least deserve the truth. It will hurt at first but you will both be better off in the long run
2006-10-24 05:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's REALLY what you want and need to do then get some time together ( there's never a 'good' time for bad news) and just say it !! do it ! tell them what 's wrong and why it's gonna happen. better to make a move on it then linger in unhappiness. be honest.
2006-10-24 05:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by t d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't, if you are not financially secure, think about your children first, Their well being should be your first consideration in whatever you do.
2006-10-24 05:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only a foolish can think of this.
2006-10-24 05:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by kingofuniverse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they want to be with someone else
2006-10-24 05:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by someone_you_wish_you_knew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try counseling first.
2006-10-24 05:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE U SURE ITS OVER
2006-10-24 05:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋