some of my friends, including my 'best frined' are starting to drift away and are leaving me and a few others. they have already hurt some of the others byt just leaving them, but all we want is to stay together, what should we do?
2006-10-24 05:03:57 · 10 answers · asked by xmwahx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get together and talk about it...get it all off your chests...if things still arent quite right then give each other a bit of space for a while...u see this has just recently happened to me and had a lot of bad consequences for all of us wen we were arguin and everythin but we talked about it...and admittedly nothing seemed to improve...so we didnt tlk for a bit kept out of each others ways...n then one day it all seemed to be forgotten about and its all back to normal now...try it n see
2006-10-25 10:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by littlequells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even the ones drifting away wanna stay together? Well if that's the case yall need to talk and express your feelings, ask them why they are drifting away. If just you and the few others want to stay together you still have talk to them tell them they mean a lot to you but you feel like they are slowly moving away.
~Hope this helps~
2006-10-24 12:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Kiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things to show them you are truly a mate , be there when they need you , show interest in their hobbies , invite them over to listen to music , tell them they are the sort of pals you would want for the rest of your life , if that does not work then let them drift as this can happen in life , you will make more mates , whether you are at school , work , in pub wherever mates will come out of the woodwork but you have to work at keeping friends , as you have to have something in common , I hope this has helped .
2006-10-24 12:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by TRUEBRIT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just roll with it. It's a perfectly normal part of life. I only speak to one of my friends I grew up with. Your just maturing and when that happens, people tend to guide themelves towards their own interests. You'll make new freinds, and the same thing may happen. You don't have quota on friends and you don't have to collect" them. People similar to you will draw themselves towards you wherever you are.
2006-10-24 12:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by Denny M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK why is this happening is it just a hey your not my friend or are they going away to college I mean not enough details for a great answer but also keep in mind as you grow older and your opinions change so do your friendships
2006-10-24 12:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest and tell them how you feel express yourself to them once a friend always a friend and if they are your friends well they will understand you want them close good luck
2006-10-24 12:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by chaparra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously there not your real friends and your best friend pfffftt!! some friend he/she is!!! best friends shouldnt do that so he/she was never a best friend in first place. if i were i would talk to them and say what friends are you when you walk away when you know i need you!!
2006-10-24 16:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by ♥abi♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a big orgy of course,then u can decide which 1's r worth staying with. u never know wen u want a shag buddy.
2006-10-24 12:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask them y r they doing this.express your feelings.
2006-10-24 13:33:38 · answer #9 · answered by !i!i!i!FaRnAzA!i!i!i!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and tell them how you feel.i bet they don't even know that they're doing anything...........
2006-10-24 12:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by cluless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋