Ladies, Would you mind being truthfull about this?

Question

I have a serious complex, and I want the brutal honest truth, dont worry, I can handle it. The thing is, even before I was sexually active, I considered myself to have a small penis, although, I have never been told by any one that this is the case, I really think I'm small. I even used to warn the women I dated before we got into anything that I was nothing to get worked up about, and I have always been told that it is just right,I've been called a lie'r and that it wasn't small,but I figure they are just telling me that so they don't hurt my feelings,My wife insists that it is big,she even says that she can't handle my size,but I am questioning even her. I don't know if this is going to make it on the website too long,it may be against the community guidelines,but my wife mesured me at one point in time, and here it is, about 5 and 3/4 inches long,and about three inches around. Is that small? Tell me the truth,I want answers from people who wont feel bad about telling me the truth

Answer 1

I think that though you're probably on the low side of average you also need to remember that your partner's size should be taken into consideration. My husband isn't the largest man on the planet. He's probably on the high side of average but I on the other hand just cannot physically handle anything any larger. Your wife may be in the same situation. Be glad that you are perfect for her and that she is satisfied with what you have to offer. Its not all about your size, its about how you work together as a couple.

Answer 2

Studies have shown that the average penis size is between 5 and 5 1/4 inches, so you are slightly above average. The interesting thing is that most women's vaginal canals only measure around 4 to 4 1/2 inches, so that could be why your wife says she can't "handle" your size. Honestly, it all depends on the woman, but my husband is around 7 inches and that is DEFINATELY all I need...and I have a friend who was with a guy that was 12 inches and she said that she's never been happier...so...I really think it's a personal choice. It sounds to me like your wife loves you just the way that you are and that you shouldn't feel in any way inadequate!

Answer 3

Here's the honest truth:

You are of average size and average girth. You have nothing to feel bad about. There are many, many men who are much smaller.

But, I think that your "problem" isn't your size -- it's your innate belief that in some way, you don't "measure up." And that has nothing to do with physical size.

It might be helpful to consider what's "really" going on here. In some way you feel "inadequate" and you've been telling yourself it's physical.

Well, I don't know you, but, I can tell you for sure that it's not.

I think you owe it to yourself to at least go to a counselor for a couple sessions to see what this is really all about. Someone in your life has made you feel "less than" -- and you've taken that ball and just run with it. You seem invested in this idea, contrary to what all women have told you, that you're not good enough.

This isn't about what other people tell you. It's that you're filtering everyone's response so that even though they tell you something, you find a reason to discount it.

The work begins with you, my friend. The truth is all around you.
What is it about you that doesn't want to accept it?

That's the place to start.

Good luck. You can do this.

Answer 4

*sigh* Men need to get over the whole size thing. What does it matter if it's big or small, or in-between? If someone cares about you, then it's what's inside that counts, not the size of your penis. I personally can't say one way or the other whether a larger penis feels better or not, because I have only ever slept with my husband. He's not huge (just slightly above average), but sometimes I wish he was smaller. If your wife is happy, then be happy about it. All I know is that I have a very strong desire to cross my legs very tightly even thinking about one much larger than average.

And FYI, you're average size, so stop worrying about it.

Answer 5

I think you've concentrated on some hanging bit of skin too much mister. To the point it sounds like everybody around you has to buoy up your ego with positivities about your dick. I can imagine the scene in your house when you return in the evenings, "Hello darling, good day at the office? By the way, you're looking particularly bulgie tonight, why don't you come over here, unzip yourself and roll out that big 'ol man hose for me" There are more things to life than the size of your trouser snake. For Gods sake get a grip, and to answer your question if it will shut u up, it's not big enough to brag about, now go and do something useful like mow the lawn or something...

Answer 6

Wow... thats small. I don't care what other women say size does matter. And a 5 inch penis is not average. Its ridiculous. My man has 10 inches so 4-5 inches cannot be average. I have NEVER even heard of a man this small. Plus if that was the average size for men why on earth would they have penil implants? I am so sick of women pacifying these little d--- men by telling them they are big or its how you use it. PLEASE... men don'thave a problem telling us whats wrong with us. So why do women feel the need to stroke a mans ego when it comes to this subject. Your penis is below average, get over it. Just be glad your wife married you. God bless her.

Answer 7

You should NOT be concerned about your size! Unless you're wife is a hooker, your size is likely a perfect fit for her. Most women aren't into large penises. It hurts! Plus if she is happy with it, then it doesn't really matter. In any case i think average is 6-7 inches. So you're right up there! Just make sure you are pleasing your lady and you are in good shape!

Answer 8

Your length sounds like the average lenth of any man but 3 in around is only slightly thinner than average. If your wife is satisfied that is all you need to concern yourself with. Women are made to accomodate many sizes and will shrink or expand to form with their normal lover's size. You are fine but may need to work on your confidence a bit.

Answer 9

That's a great size. What I want you to realize, is that penis size has no bearing on what the woman feels for you. It's not even a consideration. Some women may say that it is, but I believe they are just blowing smoke. It all boils down to personality and attractiveness. All penises are ugly and not really all that necessary except for reproduction and that's it.

Answer 10

hey look im not goin' to lie to you so here it is. now ive been with guys who have measured smaller than that and i couldnt handle them,but now im with someone who is 9in. when hard it i cannot handle it. but to be honest, no i dont think ur penis is small. in fact i think that it is pretty average. most girls would be lucky to find a guy w/ a dick ur size these days. women arent in to big ***** that they cant handle, yo know? but if your wife is really happy then thats all that matters. but other than that, NO ur dick is not small, but really i guess it all depends on ur age.