I have a serious complex, and I want the brutal honest truth, dont worry, I can handle it. The thing is, even before I was sexually active, I considered myself to have a small penis, although, I have never been told by any one that this is the case, I really think I'm small. I even used to warn the women I dated before we got into anything that I was nothing to get worked up about, and I have always been told that it is just right, I've been called a lie'r and that it wasn't small, but I figure they are just telling me that so they don't hurt my feelings, My wife insists that it is big, she even says that she can't handle my size, but I am questioning even her. I don't know if this is going to make it on the website too long, it may be against the community guidelines, but my wife mesured me at one point in time, and here it is, about 5 3/4 inches long, and about three inches around. Is that small? Tell me the truth, I want answers from people who wont feel bad about telling me.
2006-10-24 04:59:55 · 30 answers · asked by Slim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
eeehhh its cute...
2006-10-24 05:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
These women are being nice. The measurements you gave sound small. The average woman can take 9 inches. Your girth is about average, but still if you cant touch the g spot because of length...that may be a problem. This isa good test: When you have sex with your wife, press her abdomen. If you can feel your penis there and she is more aroused by it, then you are a great size for her. But so what? Your wife probably has small insides since she can barely handle you. Looks like you found the perfect balance.
2006-10-24 05:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by vanity planning 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really, some guys are too consumed with their sizes. As long as your wife is satisfied, you shouldn't worry about it. You might feel insecure about it but as long as the women in your life have never brutally dissed you, or cheated on you for the reason, then it's really nothing. I am not an expert in the area at all, but it seems like it probably is average. Not big but not small. Just be happy that you aren't having marital problems, you know. I mean, some people are consumed with the issue, but everyone isn't so caught up on it, it's a little overrated. Just feel good about being you. That's just my opinion.
2006-10-24 05:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by pumpk713 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is very small. It's good that you are honest about it. That is always appreciated. The women that told you it was big or too much were either trying to boost your ego and self confidence, or they don't really like sex much. Maybe they were frigid or something.
I typically won't go any further with a man who is too small. I just have a standard. I'm not saying it has to be so big it is dragging behind him or anything, but......size does matter. That is just the simple and plain truth.
On a lighter note, if your wife is happy with it, then WHO CARES what anyone else thinks. There is someone for everybody, and looks like you found your someone. And making HER happy with what you do or do not have, is ALL that matters.
2006-10-24 06:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by lilac b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so obsessed with your penis size? Nobody else is having an issue with it! By the way, the size you state is average, not too small. But my point here is that You are so worried that you are small that you are not seeing that your wife is perfectly fine with it. If you contintue to worry about it, you might drive her away from you. When did this all start for you? What happened to you that made you be owed by this? Think about that, and see about resolving this. If you don't, you're going to create problems with your relationship. You either need to realize this is a nonsense issue, or get help. Take care of this quickly before it's too late.
2006-10-24 05:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by sweeta : 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your wife likes it and dont complain, then what we have to say about it shouldnt matter to you. After all the ONLY opinion of your penis size that should matter is your wifes. If shes any kind of lover to you, she wont lie if you dissappoint her. My hubbys size is perfect, but when he dont work it right, I let him know about it. Great sex is created by communication, both verbally and with use of body language. I'm sure she is telling you the truth. A question for you to ponder: When you make love to her, does she genuinely seem to enjoy you? I would think a husband could tell if his wife was into the moment or not.
2006-10-24 05:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? You sound fine to me. Really. As long as you know how to use what you've got, then what is the problem? If you just make sure that your wife is satisfied, then you really don't have anything else to worry about now do you? Don't worry about what other people consider big or small. Listen to your wife. Is she more than happy with you? Sounds like it to me. So you're good. Hope this helps.
2006-10-24 05:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow guy, I used to think that too. My ex said I was smaller than her lover and that I could never please her, (she said this in anger, later telling me that she was lying after we had sex again!)so I went on a quest to check out dongs on the internet. It really had a huge effect on my sex life (couldn't get it up, shame).
Thankfully, I found that mine was actually a perfect size and through talking to the many women I have been with since her, I have come to the conclusion that not only is mine a great length, it is also perfect width and that i use it very well! Don't worry so much about the size anyway, you should be making your wife happy with your tongue first! The penis is just for good measure (no pun) after yuo have pleased her orally.
2006-10-24 05:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by dumb guy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had a good friend who was really hung. His girlfriends (make that female friends) used to boast how he was big. My friend and I were even room mates and I walked in one him once (actually several times) and it was true he was big. Anyway, the thing is women used to come to our place for sex and either he or I would entertain them. Some times we would barter for the other to entertain because we went up for it (no pun intended). I knew my friend was larger, but the women were never upset when they had me. I don't think they cared who they had it was just sex and as long as they were pleasured they were happy. I did have a few commented that they did prefer my overall performance better and that if they could combine us that would be perfect, but that's another story.
The moral is work with what you have and as long as the other person is happy don't stress about it. Its only sex and life is more than that.
2006-10-24 06:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell are you doing talking about the size of your penis on here for??? You have a wife who is happy? Do you think your net worth is your penis? Time to grow up little boy, most important is your emotional maturity and intellect. Take you penis complex to a psychiatrist it doesn't belong here. You have a problem, man. Your little head is on top and on the bottom.
2006-10-24 05:11:23 · answer #10 · answered by Lovely &..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i truly don't know, i have only been with my husband. i assume he is average, though, if he was any bigger i would refuse to sleep with him, because he would be too big. lol
but let me tell you a little thnk about women. the focus is always on men and their size which i think is so silly! because women are all different sizes. some of us are more narrow and some are shorter inside. now you put a guy who is long with a girl who is short and the chick is going to get hurt. so your wife is probably telling the truth that you are just fine.
so don't worry about it. if she is happy that's all that matters.
2006-10-24 05:07:37 · answer #11 · answered by onlylove41 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋