im 19 and just finished school. my boyfriend has a stedy income and want me to move in with him! n just got a job aswell. we've been together for 2 years now and i want to see him when i get up in the morning and when i go 2 sleep at night! any thouhgt on that?
2006-10-24 04:54:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he already pays all the bill by him self so when i move in both off us can pay, so money aint a problem
2006-10-24 05:01:21 · update #1
well cany stay there at times. my parent say im not aloud staying the night, if i want to do that i shoul move out
2006-10-24 05:04:23 · update #2
Go for it! i would... i been wit my man since i was 17 and now im 20... i am soooo ready to do that! but unlike you, i dont think i can afford it at the time!
but best of luck to u!!!!
2006-10-24 05:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating someone you are in love with is the most fun part of a relationship when you are a teenager. And you are still a teenager. Why burden the relationship with adult-like responsibilities. You have the rest of your life to do that and will not have a choice about it soon. So enjoy the carefree aspect of it now. Once you move in, its like being married but without any legal assurances and with all the responsibilities. You will find yourself arguing about the sock on the floor, the dirty kitchen, the fact that he never takes the trash out, whose turn is it to clean the bathroom, and instead of discussing fun teenage things you will have to use the time to do the bills and do the housechores.
I would wait.
2006-10-24 05:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by TrueSoul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush. Stay there at times, think about everything, and then think about it again. When people live together things change alot, move some things in a little at a time, if it ends up not being the right time, then you won't be as attached if you have to move back out. Like I said, you don't need to rush. Think about it.
2006-10-24 05:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek a counselling b4 moving in with him. you want to be sure it is the right time and right person. DONT put the cat b4 the horse
2006-10-24 05:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by ibuks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur both can afford to move in together go for it, just make sure you both can afford to pay the bills.
2006-10-24 04:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont b in a hurry, u r still 19 long way to go....
2006-10-24 05:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by !i!i!i!FaRnAzA!i!i!i!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋