Men don't stop providing. Why do women get mad because men are out seeking what they got from their wives in the beginning of their relationship. Why do women stop and then complain when he seeks it from other sources?
2006-10-24 04:53:33 · 16 answers · asked by Sweet B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I GOT MORE NASTY AND OPEN W/ HIM AFTER WE GOT MARRIED
IT IS MORE INTERESTING NOW THEN WHAT IS WAS BEFORE ALSO HE TELLS ME THAT HE IS STILL IN LOVE W/ ME ALL THE TIME W/ THREE KIDS LATER SO I THINK IT IS THE OPPSITE OF WHAT YOU SAY
SOME WOMEN JUST GET LAZY OR THEY HAVE SOME PROBLEM W/ THEMSELF
2006-10-24 05:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by ez-goin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women want the superficial marriage that is happy to others, but there is an underlying reason of being secure and having another income coming in the house. Women are expected by men to do all the house work, work a full time job, cook, clean, bills, errands, raise the kids, do the laundry and keep food coming when his friends are over to watch a game and then still expect them to spread the legs at the end of the day when all she can really do is fall down from exhaustion. However, there are some women like myself that does not have a job outside the home. I take care of a 3 year old here at home all day, am here when the bus drops off the 7 year old and be here when the 16 year old comes home from school or practice. I cook, clean, do the bills, run the errands, do the laundry and am involved in a booster club at the school. I manage my time to where in the evening, I am ready to sit down with my family and husband and am not too tired at the end of the day. In fact, our sex life has increased since we have been married. So, if men would take more of an active role in the house where both work full time jobs and help with the responsibilities, things would be different.
2016-03-28 06:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For every action there is a REACTION. You say that he doesn't stop providing, but for a woman to change up, SOMETHING has changed, whether that is having children, which causes less time as a couple because the mom has to tend to the children's needs, her own needs, AND the husband's......
He may not pay as much attention.....he may not compliment her as he once did......or take her out as much as he used to..........he may become domestic, where as once upon a time he used to be wild and untamed........but then still has the nerve to expect her to be Shahara Queen of the Jungle in the bedroom.
For every action there is a reaction, and people should look at both sides.
2006-10-24 05:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by lilac b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you talking about? There are plenty of men who don't "provide" whose wives go ahead and have sex with them anyway and of course they end up pregnant or something....
As for the seeking it elsewhere thing. If you think you're the sort to resort to that, why get married.
2006-10-24 04:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, women need to learn that they can't stop being sexual with their husbands because they will seek it elsewhere. If you want to keep your man you might have to get down on you knees once in a while when you really don't feel like it. It's not all about us. I continue to put out for my husband and I'm not afraid to keep it spicy and our relationship couldn't be better. You keep him happy and he'll keep you happy. Just never forget that a relationship is a two way street.
2006-10-24 04:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, after children come along it's just a lot harder to go from "mommy mode" to "hooker mode". You cut back on your drinking (and that used to really bring out the freak in me) and you gain weight (nobody wants to do the nasty while feeling like a whale).
2006-10-24 05:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very good question. I think women use sex as a lure and once the bait is taken and she has landed her catch she will revert to her real self.
Then she will wonder why he strayed and call him a pig without a thought as to what she did or did not do to create this situation.
2006-10-24 05:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Come on...people shouldn't get married with strings attached. Just because sex changes, doesn't give one person a free ticket to go out and cheat, and I hope you don't seriously believe that it does. On the other hand, I agree that if people have problems with thier spouses, sexual or otherwise, they need to talk to them about it and get things fixed....
2006-10-24 04:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by missapparition 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
One of the great questions of all mankind. And why do men, once married, figure the chase is over, now I can relax and do whatever I want and let the wife handle the house & kids??????
2006-10-24 04:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
good question, I wish all wives understood that sex is just sex, we don't want to jump through a bunch of hoops to have the fun we had when we were dating, not every time needs to be a dinner out and special, it can just be a screw. be kinky and aggresive, we like it.
2006-10-24 05:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by medic 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋