I have a fear that my husband will leave me someday for a guy. Yes he is bi and I know about it. He told me when we were dating and I love him and except him regardless. But I know he must still think about guys.
He bought this strap-on for me to wear. Ok, it does nothing for me but he enjoys it. He also insists that we have anal sex. Now, again it does nothing for me but make me fart the next day. But I feel if I don't let him have anal sex with me he will find a guy to give it to him. (Same with me wearing the strap on)
Should I be worried?
While I’m at it, he always has to finish in my face or mouth. He always wants me to kiss him afterwards. Past boyfriends where always grossed out in tasting there own *** and would never kiss me afterward. But my husband does?
2006-10-24 04:53:13 · 10 answers · asked by loribaby36 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is a tough one. I know that you love your husband and you should help him out with his sexual desires. If your husband is honest about his past and he loves you there shouldn't be any reason for you to doubt him. The sex may be different and maybe the two of you need to talk about it.
People struggle all the time and it is hard for them to let go of their past. I read an amazing website about a girl name Inez who was sexually abused as a child. She struggles in relationships and she can't let go of her past. So letting is hard to do.
2006-10-24 05:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by Real Voice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you are bi-sexual, leaning towards girls. I totally understand what you mean, and can diffidently relate. Just know that there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING wrong with being Bi-Sexual or Lesbian. Maybe you should try being with a girl for a little bit to see what happens. Either way there are plenty of girls out there going through this exact thing, its super confusing.
2016-05-22 07:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! I am gay and that is a even a little crazy for me. You need to talk to him. I know it would be awkward...but you need to make him aware that his actions make you uncomfortable, and give you reason to worry. He may not even know that it makes you uncomfortable and thinks you like it. If he is a real man he will dispel your fears and treat you the way you deserve.
2006-10-24 05:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by brandonwitt226 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book "SON" by Jack Olsen and let me know if your views has changed.
P L E A S E ! ! !
I think your husband has serious issues!!!
Good luck!
2006-10-24 09:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, life is too short to live through someone elses fantasies. what you just wrote, that isn't a marriage. sorry, but it's sort of discusting. he is gay and needs to admit it, and let you move on since I am assuming you are not. what if he acts on his needs and brings you home a nice disease, not fair to you at all. can't have his cake and eat it too. just not right. there is someone out there who would treat you like a lady, not a dog.
2006-10-24 04:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that he is MORE gay than straight. You are a woman, not his male lover. If he's going to be with you, he should have sex with you the way it is intended. He needs therapy.
2006-10-24 04:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by val 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be very worried.. try to talk to him an let him know that you are very uncomfortable. if you still do what he wants....if he wants to be with another partner he is going to no matter what.
2006-10-24 05:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by >>simple<< 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you and your husband should have a conversation about whats going on...
2006-10-24 04:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, that isn't right at all!!!! leave him babe....for your own good. i would be very worried!
2006-10-24 05:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by Katy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...Be very worried...
Divorce him now....
2006-10-24 04:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋