this guy broke up with her because she went to some dance and danced w/some of the guys over there he was drunk and he started saying a whole bunch of s#$*to her, he ended up braking up w/her, my friend loves this guy and she would never cheat on him so he broke up w/her and than the next day he gets on his knees and askes for forgiveness what should she do??? this guy always gets drunk and he sweared at her he wont drink eva again that if he eva messes up not to give him any more chances. should we believe him???
2006-10-24 04:50:30 · 9 answers · asked by CYNTHIA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ialways believe in giving three chances to your partner. If he serious about his drinking, tell him to enroll in a AA meeting so he can prove to her that he going to stop his drinking. If he prove to her, he gets his chance back with her. She really have to set down her rules straight like if your not going to stop drinking, you lose me. if you prove to me you stop I'm yours and you have to build trust in your heart for me.
2006-10-24 05:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Danille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he goes to some kind of rehab or AA, I wouldn't believe his "never drink again" line. He will drink again, he will be just as mean if not more, and he will break up with her over any little thing to make himself look better. "Sure I'm a drunk, but she's a hoe." Your friend deserves better than that.
2006-10-24 05:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by calliope320 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. Are they even old enough to drink? It sounds like some high school drama here. Truthfully though, being that he acknowledged that his drinking is an issue and he's willing to change, why not? .. wait, has he made a promise like this before?
Anyway, I say "sure". If it's a mistake, I'm sure your friend will learn from it and move on... sounds like she just might be young enough to have the luxury of time on her side...
2006-10-24 04:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by monie0078 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how deep this girls feelings for this guy are.This guy obviously will not easily give up drinking.Its going to take time.But I think he does really care.Since we don't know this girl you being her friend will be able to help her more.Explain to your friend about the chances and leave the decision to her.Good Luck
2006-10-24 04:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by Specky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm thats is so high school. She needs to move on to better and bigger things in her life. There is so much out there to be seen and she can't be held back with an immature guy who doesn't know what he wants to do with his life. Good luck.
2006-10-24 05:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by OE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend should be careful of this guy. Give him another chance but make it totally clear that she isnt going to be messed about.
2006-10-24 04:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by Pink_kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been in this situation before. guys like that don't change in the blink of an eye. Tell your friend the smart thing to do is just to STAY broken up w/ him.
2006-10-24 04:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by xoxmissjxox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry.. but he is never going to change... it will just get worse. your friend needs to get out now before she gets closer to him... it will be tough but she'll be OK.. just be there for her
2006-10-24 04:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by >>simple<< 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not what i think she should do or not what u think its what she thinks ask HER!!
2006-10-24 04:54:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋