This summer I went holiday with my sisters in South of Italy and we stayed there for 2 months. When we stayed at my cousins house, I met this boy whos only 3 years older than me and is friends with my cousin aswell and he is so funny, kind and soooo attractive! We swapped numbers but I only got to see him 2 or 3 times before I went back to London coz I met him the last two weeks of holidays. I really wanted to see him before I went back but unfortunately, he had to work for 2 days and plus he works like 2 hours away from the city. I was really upset not seeing him but now we keep calling eachother every single day and he asked me if we could have a long distant relationship when I go back in christmas. I REALLY want to go out with him and I do trust him but I am still worried that he would go with other girls and that he will get bored of me. The next time I'll go Italy is in Xmas or next summer. I'm SO confused coz all my mates say that it won't work... What do you think I should do?
2006-10-24 04:09:40 · 5 answers · asked by xx_italianchick_xx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The both of you need to be on the same page, as far as what you expect from the relationship, in order for this to work. Just be realistic about each others expectations,and be really honest about how you feel as far as seeing other people etc.with him.
Also, many people have successfully lasted in LDR's, my own sister and now brother-in-law, lasted 6 yrs away from each other...now they are married, and have an adorable baby boy!
It all depends on if the two of you are willing to work at it, there are a lot of positives and negatives to ldr's, just as there are if the two of you lived close by each other.
2006-10-24 04:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by Patience 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm also in a long distance relationship, but not quite as far as your potential one. Mine is only 2.5 hours away but like you we speak nightly on the phone. Depending on your ages, maturity level etc. then things might actually work our for you. Like mentioned earlier by another answerer Trust is a large issue and if you both can and do trust each other there is not reason not to give this relationship a try. After a while like any long distance relationship the decision will have to be made about who will relocate and to where, but this is a tiny obstacle if your lucky enough to have found someone that you enjoy being with and have feelings for. Best of luck to you regardless of how you decide to persue this relationship.
2006-10-24 04:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself following questions. Can he support and take care of you? Is he financially OK? Can you settle in Italy away from all your people? If the answer is in affirmative you should pursue this relationship. If you are unable to decide you just skip this relation for a while. Time is a great problem solver. If you meet someone else more interesting you may change your ideas.
2006-10-24 04:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...although the attraction may be there, there is no gaurentee that he or you will stay faithful to eachother. This a really long distance thing. you will only get to see him once in while. I dont think it's worth it. you should just be friends and just see if it happens later. Dont make any promises though.
2006-10-24 04:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by P M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the most important thing no trust its pointless
2006-10-24 04:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋