What is your view point on mid life crisis. Any women out there ever experienced this around 35ish. Do you ever think your missing something.
2006-10-24 04:03:40 · 13 answers · asked by springreed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think I am just at another cross road in my life. Hubby adores me, Sexual peak, whats that? Just kidding. I am very modest.
2006-10-24 04:23:43 · update #1
YES!!!
I am 54 and still get like that. Life!
Dont leave a spouse over it. this too shall pass!!
2006-10-24 04:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by -------- 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a firm believer that even the most fortunate person at one time or another experiences that they think their missing something.
Last year I think it's what I went through. I was a Red Cross volunteer. I was told I was being deployed to the Katrina mess. I alos had a friend missing for 9 days, so I was ready to go. They called and said they were bringing people back.
I was so amped about going. All my kids were out on their own, and no hubby or boyfriend, so I ended up giving everything I own to my kids and set out on my own.
Nothing has been great going on yet, so maybe it's still the mid life crisis stage. LOL
2006-10-24 04:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't consider it a crisis, but I do think we all (male and female) think about, from time to time, things we might be missing in life. When it becomes serious, though, that's the time to assess why we are thinking that. Maybe you need a new career, a new hobby or a new way of doing what you are currently doing. Maybe you need to re-fresh your marriage, put some sparks into your lovelife, take a trip, get right with God, do some wonderful volunteer work so you know you are helping others, etc.
2006-10-24 04:09:16 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I experienced it at age 39. I had been married for 18 years with three kids. My husband didn't think about me much and took for granted that I would always be there. I told him several times over a year that I needed to feel sexy and desired. He didn't get it.
I needed to be wanted and loved and desired so much that I ended what was a bad marriage to begin with (shotgun), and found a man with whom I am extremely happy. I know that he adores me. I feel like a whole new person with a whole new outlook. I honestly feel 20 again. Only this time I'm going to live like there's no tomorrow and take nothing for granted.
2006-10-24 04:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Around the age of 30(give or take a few years) women seem to go through a romantic crisis . She wants to be loved like in the movies , and is tired of her man loving her , and turning his back when he is done.She craves passion, but is surrounded by everyday mundane things. Is this the rest of her life, she may think. Affairs abound at this age
2006-10-24 06:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by dominicaquilino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself hasn't gone through a midlife crisis, however I know people who has. Most of them either got married early or had children early. Early meaning early 20s. So they feel like they missed out on the party part of being 20 and young. They feel like they missed out on fun. At 35-40, they look back to see what they've missed and accomplished. I find that the midlife crisis thing happens when a woman isn't where she thought she'd be at her age.
2006-10-24 04:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by T W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone thinks something is missing at some point...the best way to get thru it is sit down and think about the things you have in your life not whats missing.... remember the great times with your family, go thru photos from when they were young, and if its romance your missing take the initiative with your hubby, Ill bet he feels that is missing from time to time himself
2006-10-24 04:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,I did. It went on for about a year. I got kinda depressed, but I finally got through it. I was a single mom at the time and my kids were going through their teenage years, that didn't make it any easier. Turning 40 wasn't bad at all, seems like things started getting better and better after 40.
2006-10-24 04:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe it hits women in their 30's. When one starts questioning, 'is this all there is' And yes, I experienced it. That's when I FINALLY realized, the jerk I married was definitely not worth wasting my life any longer. LIfe took on a whole new glorious meaning!
2006-10-24 04:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excellent you are going from miracle grow to mid life crises. Yes I did see your last funny joke hehehe.
2016-05-22 06:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought that when women are in their 30s they reach their sexual peak, what crisis could you be in then?
2006-10-24 04:12:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋