I have known my best friend for about 3 years or more. We went to high shcool together we dated and than after that we became bestest friends. Than he moved on and I as well. Than I say about today he told me that he had feelings for me and I was alway a special person in his heart. Okay I could be with him and I do have a little feelings for him but theres a promble I have a man! What should I do?
2006-10-24 03:53:25 · 6 answers · asked by Pansy c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do what makes you happy.
2006-10-24 03:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by miss_peaches 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best policy would be to discuss your feelings with your current beau and see if he'll agree that you should date your old friend and find out how deep your feelings are in hopes that you will come back to your current man knowing you really want to be with him.
But this is the real world and your man will probably drop you if you try that, so I guess that means either remaining just friends with your old friend or starting that midnight creepin thing and hoping your man doesn't find out.
Whichever you decide, just make sure you don't end up on Maury a year from now trying to figure out which one is yo baby's daddy!
2006-10-24 04:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rob B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about your relationship with the other person. Are you happy with him? does he make you happy? are your interests similar? if you find that you are not as happy as you thought you were then go back with this other guy but if you are happy where you are then be honest with your friend and tell him that you do share the feelings but are happy in your relationship right now.
2006-10-24 03:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by bree_1384 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE! drop the man and let your friend know. He's the one you love.
2006-10-24 03:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by ladylupi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think who treats you better , who loves you more ,and how much do you love them and maybe think about the bad and good and each of them
2006-10-24 03:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
work out which one you want more, and then be with them......
2006-10-24 03:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋