You hit the right button,babe.
One million dollar question for those who havent received
a dime proposal.
I think what we need to ask ourselves is - is he the right one to be asked and wondered about the proposal??
Better make sure we dont throw ourselves into some ''lion den''.
Anyway,the answer to your question is -
none, as all of us here attract different kinds of men.
Men are unpredictable,who knows when,where and who he's gona pop the question to.
If you happen to be ''it'' in his eyes then congrats,its on the way.
2006-10-24 04:02:44
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Why in the world would you want to MAKE a guy marry you? Are you unable to be okay on your own? If that's the way you're thinking, why not just get pregnant and then maybe you can FORCE him into marrying you, then you can raise a whole new dysfunctional family and we'll see you on here in a year or so asking how come he doesn't love you and wants a divorce.
Honestly, find someone who WANTS to marry you if you have to be married - Don't try to force anything because you will be sorry.
2006-10-24 04:01:34
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answered by Anonymous
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I think it's absolutely absurd! Guys who date girls who are 12-40 years younger than them are pedophiles! Do they not understand that these girls can be their daughters or even granddaughters?! Ughh! I find them to be sick people! What's wrong with dating someone your own age, or close to your age? These men can buy someone's body, but they can't buy their love. Girls who date old men should be at fault as well. What they really want is just money and expecting these rich old men to support their lazy useless behind. It's not like these men will live until she dies. They'll die before she turns 30-40! The bottom line is, I would NEVER marry someone who is 5 years older than me! Look at Anna Nicole Smith. When she was in her early twenties, she married this dude that was in his 70's, but he ended up in the grave. She wanted his money, but she didn't deserved it anyway. There's more to life than making a stupid decision. I wish these girls would understand that by marrying someone who can be her father or even grandfather, they are making a terrible decision.
2016-03-18 23:29:43
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answered by Anonymous
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Stop having sex with him.
No, I'm kidding. What's stopping you from asking the man to marry you? On one end,you girls are asking for equality between the genders. On the other hand, you girls are still expecting the guys to ask you to marry him, opens the door for you, pull the chair for you and stuffs.
Just do it man!
2006-10-24 04:04:40
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answered by Geo C 4
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First you do not make a person marry you. He is not ready to get married if he is not willing to. He just is not ready darling. Don't make anyone do something that they do not want to do on their own free will.
It will be beneficial in the long run. Do you want to marry him and he become miserable and eventually create problems in your marriage, which could evidentally lead to divorce faster than expected. Sweetie respect yourself a little more, wait til he is ready, and if he isn't you can always meet someone who is more compatible to you and you to him that will be more than willing to "jump the broom" or "tie the knot" with you. Good Luck ;)
2006-10-24 03:59:33
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answered by starsmoonis 2
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You cannot and should not even try to "make" him marry you...
If you do succeed in forcing the marriage then it will probably end up as an unhappy marriage and divorce..
You can ask him and try to be all that he wants but that's about it...
2006-10-24 04:22:47
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answered by Anonymous
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My grandfather always told my sisters, that if they wanted to get a man to marry them, they needed to learn how to cook, and they need to buy a truck, with a fishing boat, he said if they did this boys wouldn't stop knocking on there door
2006-10-24 04:02:23
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answered by ? 5
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First of all, honey, from experience here, (although I've been Married three times.. Men, are scared "White" to get married !! All three of my husbands, wanted to do it, but when it came down to the "Real-Deal" the chapel, and the gown & all, they were all three terrified !!! I dont know what it is with men, they just dont like marriage, or maybe, its just the whole ceremony thing scares, them, because with marriage, comes commitment,,and men are so afraid, that things are going to change, once you actually tie the knot, and make things "Official" you know. Whereas, us women, just want to consemate the whole relationship, by being married to the one we love, you know. Its our way of showing them how much we love them ! Marriage, is a "Union" between two people, and God as our Witness, and its basically all about joining together as "One". And if you basically explain to him that in the bible, by living together,and not getting married, its considered "Fornicating" that if you were to die tomorrow, this wouldn't look to good, when its time to stand in front of God Almighty. What would he say? "Uh, I just didn't want to!" Well, the bible also, says, that none of us are "Promised Tomorrow" you might want to mention that as well, and how short life really is.. And how the two of you should experience life, and everything about it! What a better way, to experience life then to get married. That nothing would change,it would just simply make your relationship, LEGAL, is all .. Explain to him you'd even sign a "Prenup" if he wanted you too. If there's money involved, for his reasons, of not wanting to tie the knot.. Good-Luck, to you, hun.. I know devorce is also against the bible, and I've had three of them, but God also doesn't want me to be with an Abusive Man, and or a man who didn't care about paying bills, or being resposible... I stayed as long as I could with all three. But, one can only do so much, You cant teach an old dog, new tricks.. And that was the case, with all three of my marriages.. I tend to pick, very poorly, when it comes to Men !! So, now I'm taking a long break, from marriage,dating, the whole enchilada.. And finish raising my two teens, then I'll consider the whole dating thing again. But, this time, it'll be with a man from church. PERIOD!! I know God's been trying to get my attention, for some time, about my not picking a Godly Man, since I come from a Spirit-filled, walk, in the past... So, time will tell. If God can guide me, to him.. Once, my kids are grown. that is.. Good-Luck, and tell him all the good things we've all mentioned, on this site. Maybe, he'll reconsider.Hopefully..He'll say "Yes" this time.
2006-10-24 04:18:53
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answered by Hmg♥Brd 6
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Get pregnant and tell him he is the father,,,,No not really You can't "make" A guy marry you...You have to get him to want to marry you.
2006-10-24 03:53:57
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answered by Anonymous
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Why would you want to "make" someone marry you, would be any real chance for happiness if you have to force the person.
2006-10-24 03:57:10
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answered by elaeblue 7
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