i with someone for a long time but deep in my heart i know that i really don't love her that much. but i don't have the gut to tell her since i might hurt her feeling and i hate to make her cry or sad. i'm like forcing myself to love her and i know this will not work but the way she depend on me emotionally, breaking up with her will break her into thousand pieces.
2006-10-24 03:44:39 · 5 answers · asked by arragorn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WOW, this is really hard, all I can say is that you should be honest with her. I dont understand why you lead her this long babe?...but what you should do, is talk to her and tell her its you not her.because it is. and tell her this relationship is best if you two were to become just friends, since you guys share such a close relationship, yeah she is going to cry and yes you are going to hurt her, you already have, you hurt her and youself, but its ok, because evryone learns from their mistakes. Be careful and let her understand you. Always be there fore her, beacause you seem to be the one she is cormfortable with. Even if you get into a future relationship with someone else, always be there for her, and dont let anything come between what you two had. And babe, you do love her. You care about her, because you wouldnt be askn about this if it wasnt in your heart. God bless, I hope this helped.
2006-10-24 03:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by old 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. You are hurting her more by staying with her if you donºt love her. Both of you might feeling sorry for a while, but you will both be able to move on.
2006-10-24 10:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by Teresa F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the two previous awnsers. Not telling her how you feel your giving her the idea that everything is ok and its obviously not. Thats not good for you or her. She will be hurt , thats a given but hopefully she will see that your being upfront with her and you can part as friends.(it worked for me)
2006-10-24 10:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by Robyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to get it over with now then later,the longer you wait the more it is going to hurt her
2006-10-24 10:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by staggerlee1944 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you have to do, quite giving her false hope, and quite letting her live in a delusional world. you are doing more harm by staying.
2006-10-24 10:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋