i've never read about any woman who has a higher drive than a man its always the man who is thinking and asking for it but in my marriage its always me who is asking. does any one else have this experience and how do you deal with it?
2006-10-24 03:42:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes it is possible. Most men do have a higher sex drive (I believe) but right now I am ready whenever my b/f is.
The problem you may run into is, as a woman we can literally lay there and perform our duty however a man will have to get it up, so that can be a disadvantage to us females.
2006-10-24 03:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have found that most woman are opposite of men. When young, men are studs and like a deer in full rut, try to strut their stuff and go for all nighters.
As they get older, their drive slows down, not all, but most. Woman on the other hand, as a general rule, have a fair drive younger, but some, as they get older, the drive increases.
I was married for 24 years the first time, and my wife's drive fizzled at age 42 where as mine is getting worse. I remarried and my new wife don't know how to act because we both have a very strong sex drive. Her and her daughter were talking and when it was shared the spontaneousness of our sex life, and frequency, her daughter couldn't believe mom rocked like that.
The secret is to keep sex interesting. You get tired of Bacon and Eggs all the time. That is for both guys and gals, Guys, be romantic, take her off for a weekend somewhere and have fun. Ladies, dress sexy and seduce your man.
Make time for the two of you, even after you start a family. Keep it romantic, take her flowers, send her cards just like when you dated.
Life dont change when you say " I do", it is suppose to get better. Only the two of you can make it better.
Life is too short to be boring, spice it up and you wont regret it.
2006-10-24 03:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by bigmikejones 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that once a woman hits about 35 or 40, her sex drive increases to the point where it is at least as high as a man's. At about 40 or so, some men start having sexual potency problems and perhaps that's why they claim not to want to have sex as much - they're afraid that they may not be able to perform.
2006-10-24 03:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is nothing wrong with you! I had to ask my doctor the same question ^_^ but seeing as how you are in your early twenties, you are in your prime baby making age. It usually causes your sex drive to spike. Some people lose it, some don't...my doc's suggestion...keep a lot of toys for those times hubby can't keep up. My suggestion...maybe treat him to a nice little "show" it just might get him in the mood to give you what you want.
2016-05-22 06:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never thought it was possible but after my divorce I met lots of women who had higher sex drives then their previous husband. It seems to be pretty normal, especially as the couple gets older.
2006-10-24 03:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by Rick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Take longer showers? Hee hee
Try not to fight about it. Guys don't like to be pressured or made to feel inadequate. I know it is hard sometimes to not get frustrated, but your marriage is so much more than this one thing. Don't cheat, either, you'll just feel horrible about that. Try to "relax" on your own time and just enjoy the intimate times you do have with your husband and make the most of that.
2006-10-24 03:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it's possible, because it's the same way in my marriage. In our case I usually just don't worry too much about it unless he starts it. He'll never admit it, but that's how it is. My best advice is to try and get him to tell you what he likes best. Then use this as a way to get what you want also. I do this with my husband and it seems to work.
2006-10-24 07:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I have a higher sex drive than my husband, but I think mine definitely rivals his. I think it depends on the individual person. Everyone's needs and hormones are different. Try to make your wife feel special, and maybe she will want to be with you more often. :) Good luck.
2006-10-24 03:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by BeezKneez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course it is possible for a woman to want more sex than the man in any given relationship...
Just give her all you can....Get some toys...
2006-10-24 04:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've realized thats the furthest thing from the truth. In my experience and all of my friends, the woman's is higher than the man's.
2006-10-24 03:45:10 · answer #10 · answered by apriljm76 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋