which I really hate being single and lonely. Someone told me that God only chooses those who are strong in character to withstand loneliness but I really hate this kind of life with noone to journey together the rest of my life.
2006-10-24 03:39:31 · 30 answers · asked by ANGEL 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Don't worry.Nobody in this world is n't alone.God has created some one for you, with whom you can share your feelings,thoughts.Don't be downriden.Keep trying.you will meet the right person at right time.
2006-10-24 03:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by amar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well my dear, think of this. I am a Christian and I am married, and I probably am just as lonely as you. Having a mate, I'm sorry to say, is not always the answer. If you are married for go or bad, sometimes the bad is just too much to cope with at times. If we could both go back to when we were children, and live the life that we should have according to God's rules, and if we could have meet someone else who had done the same, we would have a very good chance of living very happy. Considering that we are forgiven our sins, but not delivered out of them, who know what will happen, or what the devil will put us through. Remember the Son, and what experiences he had here on earth. Why should we have it better?
I'm sorry lady, I know you pain and lonelyness. I do not have all the answers, but I am a good listener. If you like, email me at tgm004@yahoo.co.uk I live in US Gerald
2006-10-24 03:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by compassion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God certainly has the best plans for you. If you aren't happy being alone, then God definitely has someone good for you to keep you company. But He has never specified that 'someone' to be in the form of a boyfriend or husband. It could come in the form of a good friend who'd keep you company when you feel lonely. It could come in the form of a loyal pet dog who understands your every fear and waits patiently while you tear.
The most important thing to do is never to lose hope in God. He fulfills all His promises to those who have faith in Him.
There may be various reasons why you are still single. Perhaps you haven't met that special someone yet, and God always saves the best for the last. Meanwhile, do go out and mingle socially. Don't stay cooped up at home. Or perhaps, God wants you to search for your real identity and learn the true meaning of love before you can learn to love anyone else. Or perhaps, God has a special role for you on this earth and He doesn't want you to be distracted from your important role in life. Focus on your important role first and God will take care of everything else in your life.
Even if God hasn't planned a special guy for you, He'll never abandon you. If loneliness in old age worries you, don't be afraid. God will really provide for all of us somehow. I know, because I prayed to God every day and He gave me the most wonderful man I could ever have.
Don't lose heart and do continue praying to God. He's listening and will answer your prayers in His time.
2006-10-24 03:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by citrusy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, God does not punish us for anything. I use to kinda think like that; I'm stuborn, but that's past now. And it's not the devil doing anything to you either. Just be more out going and live the life that has been planned out for you. Join groups, anything; do as much as you can. If you really want to be around a lot of people. I'm a loner and always have been, but I'm also an only child. It's good to be alone; think of how annoying people can be. Go to school. Thats always a good thing; can't go wrong there. Throw urself into school and become a great Doctor or whatever you want to be. And if you don't know; just get a general degree. There are all kinds of jobs out there people don't even know about. Good Luck. And if you ever want to talk just email me or something. <3
2006-10-24 03:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lacey Gold 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God did not create anyone with the intent purpose of being lonely. A lot of women I have talked to have said that they went through some really lonely, needy times before they met the men that are now their spouses. One of them was my oldest sister. She had finally decided that she was just going to live a single life and raise her son by herself, when a couple of months later, (at Christmas) she met her husband while he was playing Santa at the store he worked at! Talk about getting your Christmas wish!
God desires that each person be complete and comfortable with themselves, becoming a whole human being so He can trust you with another human's heart. Above all, He desires a friendship with you, because He really doesn't want you to feel alone. The most important relationship to have is one with God, where you talk to Him about everything, and trust Him with every aspect of your life. And as for the guy thing, if God has someone out there for you, He will make it work. You just concentrate on becoming your ideal self, and let God worry about the other details. :-) He's been doing that sort of thing for a looooooooooonng time.
2006-10-24 04:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling hate is probably not going to help you. Try improving your outlook. A positive outlook, even if you are faking it at first, will help you take some positive action. Instead of thinking God wants you this way for your entire life, maybe this is something you are experiencing now so you can learn appreciation for what you have had and will have again. Being single and loneliness are not exclusive. I have been happily married for 4 years and loneliness still strikes me every once and again. Instead of giving in to it, go out!! For some life hints try John Tesh's web site, www.tesh.com
2006-10-24 03:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your life is halfway over (50+), then i seriously doubt that you will have no one to journey with. I'm 21 and haven't had a real gf yet. and i only have like 1 or 2 friends at the moment... wasn't always like that, so i assume that god must want me to figure something out without people to distract me. I don't think that i will be this lonely all my life, and i think god has someone very special planned for me and that's why i have to wait. so just stick it out and reflect on life as much as you can.
2006-10-24 03:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I wouldnt take advise from that person any more. that is so far from the truth. The Bible says that David was a man after Gods own heart. So David was one of Gods, and David not only had a wife, he had an affair with Dathsheba. and then married her. That is not a life of lonliness. god also told us to be fruitfull and multiply, how are we supposed to do that if we dont have a companion? God doesnt want his children to live a life of lonliness. God doent want us to be unhappy. and just to let you know, the ability to be lonliness does not show a persons character. they have nothing to do with eachother.
2006-10-24 03:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh No! "The Son of Man" (L-rd and Savior) does not want you to be lonely, and single! The "ding-dongs" who told you that He-
(L-rd) wants you to suffer the feelings of lonliness, and being alone to build your character; ARE WRONG!!!
"The Son of Man" is total LOVE; that is why HE CREATED you! So you could share your life with the Man that He made just for you!
Remember this; Be patient, and have an ounce of FAITH in Him!
When you realize this fact, that you are not "mature-enough"(ready) right now, but tomorrow you will be. He(L-rd) will put you together with "The Man of your dreams" and cause you to feel that you are the most "Blessed" woman on earth! You have found and kept "The Man of your dreams," and "The Son of Man" doesn't want you to loose Him, or let go of Him, because you weren't ready and did not know what He(L-rd) gave you!
You are young, and have the rest of your life in front of you, so just be patient, and believe that it will all change tomorrow for your benefit!!
Good Luck! Have a little FAITH!!!
2006-10-24 03:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by 1moe4u 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
question? why do you assume God has made the choice for you to be alone? could it be that maybe you've had someone special right in front of you and for whatever reason, either didn't recognize the opportunity or didn't take the chance? loneliness and being alone are two different things. personally i love being alone. but truth be told even when you're alone, isn't God still there with you?
2006-10-24 03:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by Darin C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in control of your own choices not God he gave us this chance to experience life that's all
2016-05-22 06:46:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋