So i had a dream that my ex cheated on me with someone else who was my cousin and i felt so bad inside and he acted like he didn't care kinda like it was my own fault 'cause i didn't do everything for him that he wanted to.I never have profetic dreams so what does it mean 'cause i woke up and i didn't feel bad but in the dream it was the worst feeling i've ever felt.Does it mean i'm afraid of this happening to me or could it mean something else??Anyone who can help i would greatly appreciate it....
2006-10-24 02:59:08 · 14 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
dreams are a reflection of our worst subconcious fears ,things, we wouldn't conciously think about!so maybe thats what you fear the most when it comes to your relationship is concerned.so maybe you should chill out before you jeopardise your relationship with your man!!!!luck to and lots of it!!!
2006-10-24 03:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by chev-poison 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With dreams, you really have to try your best to remember any other objects, people or places that stand out. Everything in a dream is connected somehow, and once the pieces are all put togther than you can get an idea of what your sub-concious is trying to tell you.
I love trying to figure out my own dreams, and at least once a week I refer to my dream guide books, or to the website below if I need more answers. Sometimes I get stumped, and other times I'm amazed and saying to myself "Why didn't I think of this before?".
Now, I'm definitely not an expert on the subject, and as I said I've been stumped or wrong in the past. The easiest way to figure out your dream would be to write down each individual thing you remember, in fact you could buy a notebook to be your own personal dream journal (a method Prince Charles uses, in fact). Then, either using the website or any dream books from a local library, find out what each symbol represents, and copying down the basics behind each one. Then comes the last step, trying to figure out the connection and and ending it all with the final meaning behind the dream as a whole.
Hopefully, my advice can help you out. It's always easier to research dream info for yourself, only because you know exactly how it looked/looks in your mind, and how you really felt when you dreamt it. Good Luck! =)
P.S- And sweeter dreams! =)
2006-10-24 03:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by parseltongue82 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a few many unusual desires. lol One is every person i knew used to be sitting at this splendid lengthy desk, we had been accumulated for a ceremonial dinner. Suddenly I appear on the window and spot zombies running up the aspect of the mountain. So everyones grabbin a gun and jumpin at the bus. I get a seat subsequent to a high-quality man or woman. lol nevermind. Anyway its some distance and the complete time men and women have weapons hangin out the window shootin the zombies. Then they announce we're headin' to mexico. Then after we get there, their is a protracted line and come to a decision we cannot wait to pass the border, so we take a brief reduce and make it to a couple abandoned caves after which seize a few zombies and uncover a therapy... i suppose. Shortest dream I'm a Libra and I have no idea what the Sun ,Moon, Mars, Venus, and Neptune are for.
2016-09-01 01:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by polka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe dreams really do have some truth in them. For instance, in the past my boyfriend had a dream about my ex. He had never met the guy, just kind of knew of him. Anyway, after he told me that, all of a sudden my ex gets in touch with me. Your ex probably did cheat, your dream was showing you part of reality that you did not want to know. It may or may not have been your cousin but i would keep an eye on the family or friends you keep around.
2006-10-24 03:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by Gamergrl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, dreams come from subconscious mind.
In your case, you feel like your ex cheated on you with your cousin. That symbolizes your feeling of unwilling of giving up. In other words, you have some sort of guilt conscience. Think about this, why do you still care about your ex? Because you feel bad subconsciously even he is ex, that guilt conscience lurks into your mind and have you dreamed of something unease like your cousin got involved. Whether it is in fact that your cousin is in the affair, that proves that you still can't let down your past relationship. Perhaps, you feel like the break up is kind of your fault.
Sometimes, waking up from bad dream make you feel better. However, that stores in your head and you have to clear your guilt conscience or you will feel bad again every time you sleep
2006-10-24 06:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, it was your ex that cheated on you in a dream. So you shouldn't put too much time into worrying about that. Did he cheat on you when you were together? Has your cousin been with any of your boyfriends? Do you think she is prettier than you? I can see three possibilities. 1. Inferiority complex (to your cousin) 2. Jealousy of your cousin. 3. You don't trust your cousin.
Finally; I wouldn't put too much stock in this particular dream. Good luck.
2006-10-24 03:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by Joe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really like this website for dream interpretation. They have a dictionary for common symbols and you can send them your dream and they'll do an analysis. They aren't psychiatrists or anything so you should visit with that in mind, but sometimes they say things that make sense. I had a really weird and disgusting dream once and thought I must be losing my mind and when I went on the site it was actually listed as a common dream. It's always good to know that there are other people thinking the same things you are.
http://www.dreammoods.com/
2006-10-24 03:10:08 · answer #7 · answered by x 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you obviously have guilt issue's, possibly you feel bad about how it ended with your ex and you probably link it with your cousin because subconciously you remember things that happened in the past and you feel the cousin would be the one to betray you. don't worry its normal to dream in a big way when you feel very emotional about something, the brain doesn't quit working just because the body has laid down to rest.
2006-10-24 03:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is your ex I think he has a right to see whom ever he wants. I can see how it would hurt you if it were someone close to you though. I think like a cousin is far enough away, had it been a sister then that would make it worse. I know I would hate to see my brother dating my ex.
2006-10-24 03:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas S 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-10-24 03:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by Spirita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋