Has anybody, male or female, ever been pressured into having sex with someone & then regret it?

Answer 1

Heck....that would be most people in the world.....you made a mistake. Now make yourself a promise that you will never sell yourself short again...don't compromise who and what you are for No one again...when you have sex you are losing a piece of yourself (something special).

Handle your own need yourself and wait to have sex with someone you are serious with. Good luck and remember the past is gone when can only live in the here and now and do better.

Answer 2

Lovely B has said it beautifully.I am older than you now and I'm assuming this because for the most part only a young women would ask this question.when i think back to the times in my life when i have been there i would say i gave into the sex because i thought i was obligated to,or because i thought they would like me better or because i would be labeled a TEASE(an expression guys made up so they could have sex when-ever they wanted it) You may have some convoluted ideas in your head about relationships,ya know subconsciously,and perhaps some low self esteem issues,see a female therapist,it can't hurt,and remember what Lovely B said!how many pieces of your self do you think you have ?only to give them away. guilt is your heart telling you you haven't been true to yourself or what you believe

Answer 3

Yes but the pressure was soft and seductive in a erotic way. Being quite young at the time I thought it would be exciting. It wasn't I've regrets about allowing it. Because I could have said NO.

Answer 4

yeah, probably most people have at some time or another. I try not to regret much, tho. Its all a learning curve. Think of it that way.

Answer 5

Does being screwed by the IRS count??

Answer 6

Yes... it's only great if it's wanted by both parties...