2006-10-24 02:12:50 · 18 answers · asked by ravi s 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
As long as it is not keeping you from performing your husbandly duties, no problem. Once you are married, if you are masturbating INSTEAD of being with your wife, you have a problem.
2006-10-24 02:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by kathy_is_a_nurse 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation and intercourse are both sexual acts. But I'm sure you realise that they are very different from each other. Once you get accustomed to the pleasures of masturbation over a period of time, it might just take some time to change track and get accustomed to penetration. While masturbating, you only had to satisfy yourself. So you could go really fast if you wanted. But in intercourse it is desirable to prolong the act to the extent of your wife reaching orgasm as well. These aren't major problems. You can always overcome these as and when you face them. But your marriage being just a month away, it is advisable to abstain for the period.
2006-10-25 14:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully marriage will take care of it.
I believe your concern make sense becuase some people says (once masturbating,always masturbating) but with really HAPPY marriage this habit SHOULD disappear, but if its going to be back, them there must be some problem with the marriage itself.
For the time being, stop obsessing about it & look forward for happy times to come & be close to your fiancee(your future wife).
I do wish you guys good luck becuase good luck is sometimes necessary for the marriage too.
2006-10-24 09:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by drinda_house 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, Ravi, it should not affect your married life. You will have a nice Indian girl who will respect you as her husband. and you will learn to pleasure her - read and try the techniques & positions in your KAMA SUTRA. you'll have fun. and when she's on the rag, then you can masturbate. don't get out of practice with that hand - for you will need it periodically. Good luck!
2006-10-24 11:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by blackbird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men continue to masturbate throughout their life, regardless of their marriage/single status. Either ensure your wife is OK with it, or find times when she's not around.
There's nothing wrong with it as long as you don't neglect your sex life together as a couple.
2006-10-24 09:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should not make any problems for you a lot of married guys still masturbate, you will find alot more things on your mind, things to do with your new wife that will maybe help you cut down on jerking for some time.....Remember you can also both masturbate together.
2006-10-24 09:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Surly it'll effect your married life. Think everyday of your financé staying naked, but try your best not to masturbate. When you achieve erection do not touch your penis.
2006-10-24 11:19:06 · answer #7 · answered by jot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't do it everyday, but sometimes. Has not hurt my marriage one bit. My wife is 1 week overdue with our 4th kid, so she doesn't want it anyway.
2006-10-24 09:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by Daddy of 5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't effect your marriage unless your doing it at the site of other women i.e. ****
2006-10-24 10:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so considering it is natural for all men to masterbate..most married men do.......good luck on the marriage.
2006-10-24 09:31:53 · answer #10 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋