im in a relationship, but im a second gf only, i do love him but i know he loves her real girl so much, he shows attention and love to me thats why this happen, its hurting me when there together coz were open about it..... what will i do???? do i have to go out in this relationship or wait for the time that he will choose me, coz he always told me to wait and he told me that he loves me too.... am i to crazy to love him....? help to decide guys im really confused....
2006-10-24 02:03:32 · 9 answers · asked by apocalips 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I don't want to hurt you, but you are being used. He is stringing you along either because it inflates his ego or he is to immature to know what he wants. If he really loves YOU like he says then he wouldn't have another girlfriend. Where is your pride and self esteem? Never allow yourself to be second best. You deserve better. As hard as it may be I suggest that you leave this guy and go find somebody who will care for just YOU and YOU alone.
2006-10-24 02:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Country Hick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would walk away no good comes from being the second lover.I think if he really loves you like he says hed be with you and only you.I dont think you can trust him.Even if he leaves this other girl for you whos to say he wont find another girl to add to the list.You should find someone that will be totally devoted to a relationship with you and only you.
2006-10-24 09:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by feenexx 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd like to tell you that someday, he will love you, but it seems to me that he's playing with your heart. If he were being honest with you, he would not be going for two girls at the same time.
Maybe someday he will realize that he should have treated you better, but try to give him up. You can do much better! I hope you will find a guy who will love you for who you are.
best of wishes
2006-10-24 09:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by ♥honey♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to love someone who is in love with someone else? You are a good person and you deserve much better than that. Go out and find yourself someone who will respect you and love you and ONLY you!
Good luck.
2006-10-24 09:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by wildnights 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are being used. But it's in your power to make the decision to leave this relationship....it seems that he has the best of both worlds...shows how much he cares about you....if he wanted to leave his other he would have by now...sorry.
2006-10-24 10:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u see love is not about give and take policy. Its more about just give policy. Just go on showering u`r love on him and the day he realises u`r true love , he will definitely be only and only yours. Bcoz we guys desperately need someone who can really love us at evens as well as odds of our lives and I feel that u will definitely suceed in making him feel so. So just shower u`r love.
2006-10-24 09:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by Friend always there 4 u 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Why would you settle for #2? You should be his one and ONLY! Leave him alone and find someone who deserves to be with you.
2006-10-24 09:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by shellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too....if you love someone you only want to be with them..no one Else...your not confused you in love..love dose hurt..tell him ether you..or fine someone new
2006-10-24 09:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by babo1dm 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do yourself a favor, find out who you are. Then give yourself to someone how is worthy of what you'ev found....
2006-10-24 09:13:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋