He has physical and mental problems now and what I found out about his past scares me now. He has lied and his family also. I have felt close to all of them. Now, I feel he is a stranger to me. I think he may make up half of his physical illnesses so he can see his doctor about the mental ones. In 4 years he has not let me meet or even know his doctor? Because of his past, I fear the future? I cannot tell all the details. He has promised to move out soon as it is financially possible. Am I wrong for wanting this stranger out? I have tried to help him 100%. Now, I don't know what is true.
2006-10-24 01:56:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're on the right track to get this pathological liar out of your house and your life; just follow through and don't listen to his attempts to get back in.
2006-10-24 01:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Debi, hearing all your comments about this guy will make anyone to say the obvious - leave him alone. But can you just recollect the positive aspects of his life too. Put the good and the bad on a scale and see whatever outweighs the other. You're in the best position to take a decision, but please, act wisely. Good luck and cheers!
2006-10-24 02:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in case you will stay with him (which i anticipate you're on account that's your husband yet I won't get too lots into that), then be very careful and careful of something that he tells you. If he lies approximately previous relationships, there is not any telling to what else he lies approximately. that's no longer efficient in the direction of your marriage in any way shape or variety via fact a pair ought to be thoroughly basic with one yet another in spite of the previous, latest or destiny.
2016-11-25 01:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your husband he should tell you the truth about everything. We all have skeletons in our closet that we may not tell anyone but he should be honest and upfront about almost everything. I do not blame you for wanting to leave. The man you married is not the man you thought you married. That is scary.
2006-10-24 02:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant live with a stranger... if he really TRULY loved you he would have been totally honest with you! but the fact that he wasn't shows he didn't trust you enough, and trust is 1 of the most important things in a relationship
2006-10-24 02:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he lied about his past, it might be something scary. If you have someplace else to go don't wait for him to leave you go
2006-10-24 02:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by val l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him.
2006-10-24 06:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his name is paul and he is from lichfield : )
2006-10-24 02:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Gravy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋