how do you feel when someone says you're UGLY?

Question

and then someone would say... "What if one day, you'd have a relationship.......eww...what a joke" and WHAT SHOULD I DO.


p.s.: I'm not the ugly type where as i have defect in my face, obese or something....... the kind where as NOT POPULAR, ordinary, has her own style etc.

Answer 1

The only real ugly in the world is in the heart of someone that can say something like that to you. In my experience, the ones who are cruel enough to call someone ugly usually do it because they envy you for some reason. They're attention seekers, hoping they can get the extra attention from anyone who hears them say it. They think being mean makes them cool. They need to make you insecure so no one will notice how insecure they really are. You're the winner sweetie!! Keep your head held high and remember...what goes around, comes around...this one day will come back on her.

Answer 2

Join the club. That is how I am. But you know what. Popular isn't everything. Once your out of school it isn't going to do you any good. Don't pay attention to what other people think about you. I figured that out. I still be sweet to everybody then mabey the populars will figure out that your nice and you don't need to be called names.

Answer 3

Heeloooooooooooooooooooo.....get a life...the person who sees u ugly the ugly one....not you!!
if someone has the gutts to put u up with a ques.....just say......looks like u think of urself too much... or what qualifies u to say that.....or u can say THA SAME GOES TO YOU!!

i dont stand this kinda nonsense.its high time u gave back tight!!

Answer 4

Just be you sweetie. That's all you can do. Don't try and be someone you're not for the sake of being popular. It's so overrated. You'll probably find the greatest guy ever one day and everyone will regret that they made fun of you!

Answer 5

OHHHHHHHHHHH THAT HAS TO HURT ALOT!!! I HOPE WHOM EVER IS SAYING THIS TO YOU , YOU ARE KEEPING YOUR DISTANCE!!!! JUST TELL THIS PERSON THEY A FAR UGLIER THAN YOU COULD EVER BE!!!! YOU SOUND LIKE A KID THAT HAS IT PRETTY TOGETHER!! NO NEED TO BE POPULAR, I DOUBT IF YOU ORDINARY, AND HAVING YOU OWN STYLE IS SO AWESOME.....SHOWS THAT YOU ARE YOUR OWN PERSON, YOUR NOT GONNA FOLLOW THE CROWD, YOUR AN INDIVIDUAL!! BET THE JERKS THAT SAID THOSE MEAN THINGS ARE JEALOUS OF YOU.........I BET ALL THEY CAN DO IS FOLLOW THE CROWD!! THEY SOUND LIKE A BUNCH OF SHEEP!!!!!!!!!! "TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE!!!!!!!"

Answer 6

well i think it hurts but you need to find yourself not because what everybody eslse thinks but of what you think if you think you are ugley the world will see you ugly if you think you are pretty then thst the way it is people tend to try to pass they insecurity to another person and thats why they start name caluing bla bla bla so love your self no matter how you are

Answer 7

If someone said that to me I'd ask them how long ago they looked at themselves in the mirror

Answer 8

ya know u n me are alot alike, shoot i aint all that popular either, have my own style, my advice to is stay UNIQUE thats what amkes u.....YOU

gimme a holla on yahoo messanger sometime

Answer 9

easy just give him\her a peice of your mind and a few slaps !!! everybody has some self-respect and it is your right to protect it!!!

Answer 10

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL , PEOPLE JUST WANT TO SAY THINGS , WHEN THEY HAVE MENTAL ISSUES, THEY REALLY NEED TO ALSO, ACT MATURE AND NOT BE SO IMMATURE !!!!! [e-mail] ( DARREN) IF YOU WANNA CHAT!!!!