I've been seeing a man for 8mths,he's had a bad time in his last relationship and so have i,he has asked me on a few occassions to marry him and i'll be good as his wife.I've always thought he wasn't marriage material because of the bad time he had in his last relationship and when we've discussed it in the past he's always shrugged it off.Now he's asking and i just shrug it of and say stop winding me up,he says he's not and he wud marry me tomorrow if we could. Is he winding me up or telling the truth? Are there any questions i can ask him to find out if he is serious?
2006-10-24 01:39:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well, you can always ask him what he thinks of the relationship with you, and comparing to his past relationships, if he said it's something special, and he never feel this way about a woman before, that means he's serious about marriage.
2006-10-24 01:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to ask him anything. If you assessed early on that he is not marriage material, then don't let him pull the wool over your eyes (unless that is what you want). Trust your first instinct; once you are married to him, whatever was bad about him before you married him will only get worse. The question you need to ask is "can I live with what I cannot stand about him, knowing that it is going to be 10 times worse after we are married than it is now?" If the answer is "no," move on.
2006-10-24 08:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by adamsjrcn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's a better idea for right now to enjoy what you have together before taking the next step,sice the both of you just got out of a bad one . See it as an engagement time . So you can see if things would turn out great and sort out the feelings for each other . and then go from there
2006-10-24 08:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm....
Were do i start, why did you start dating him if you though he wasnt marriage material? Doesnt sound like you wanted to settle down then so mabey you took someone that you knew you had no future with? I dunno just guessing?
I actually think he is telling the truth, i think he does want to marry you, but if i were you i would think what you really want to do, cause i wont ask a lady to marry me more than once.
2006-10-24 08:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you need to go pick out the rings and set a date for the wedding!
2006-10-24 08:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah ask him what date hes got in mind and when he wants to open a joint bank account. his response should tell all. good luck hope your both very happy
2006-10-24 08:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by ms sensible 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's serious. A man does not ask that question unless they mean it. Good Luck.
2006-10-24 08:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Say yes and see what happens.
2006-10-24 08:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK him why
2006-10-24 08:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by KaitlynWonders... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋