My wife found a phone # in my phone bill and asked me about it, i told her the # belongs to my academic supervisor whom i'm so close to daughter. I went through bill online and realized i have been talking to this girl sometimes twice a day and she don't seem to care. I know she knows there is something going on but she just don't care. is she also cheating ?
2006-10-24 00:28:27 · 44 answers · asked by killuminati 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
might be possible that she's keeping a check on you and before she gets confirmed, she doesnt really wants to talk to u abt all this....thats really practical on her part....y to create a mess without even knowing the actual truth....!!!!!! or....probably she loves u and trusts u a lot....and tahts the reason she has accepted whatever u ahv told you about the number, etc...!!!!!!! dont play with her trust....if she truely loves you, u r very lucky...!!
2006-10-24 01:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by ..ss.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a little guilt going on here pal. Maybe you should get away from the heat for awhile and see if the fire burns down. Then have a little heart to heart with your significant other and see where it leads. I see no value except everything you own, going out the window, if you keep up this relationship. If you and your spouse are on this road, you might as well bring it into the open and finish it. You didn't say if kids were involved, if not, get it over with. Foolish is what foolish does.
2006-10-24 01:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is probably very hurt and in denial. She may try to get revenge by cheating too, but probably not. If you want to keep your marriage, then you should talk to her about it and think about counseling. It's hard to have your cake and eat it too without some consequences. I've been on both sides of cheating and it's never worth hurting the other person. Just talk to your wife and go from there. Good luck!
2006-10-24 01:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by kristystarfire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better get ready for the roller coaster ride you'll never forget------Your wife is gathering evidence to present to the courts to sue your rear for a divorce----ADULTERY dude isn't looked very kindly on in the court system----
If you think your wife is stupid she's not----SHe probably already called the # on the phone bill and verified the lame explanation you gave to her-.....She's playing a good offensive defense....and you my friend are going to get burned big time----!!!
If you don't like the HEAT----then you best get out of the pervebeal KITCHEN----because where a man is found out conclusively cheating----the woman will always PREVAIL in court!
2006-10-24 00:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife knows but like all wives she's hoping that it's not true.
Sometimes wives pretend this does not exist in order to stop or slow down the process of change. Once she accepts that you are having an affair she will have to make a choice and lets hope she has enough love for you to give you some sort of a chance.
Is it wrong for her to cheat on you??????
2006-10-24 00:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by Blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she does know that you are cheating on her, she probally has suppected it for some time..it sounds like you have done this before..and if it is that she just doesn't care anymore..it don't mean she is cheating..it also may mean that she realizes that if you are going to cheat you will get whatever comes around..i hope that she isn't dumb enough to let it go on..i can't really say whether she cares or doesn't..some women can put up with just about anything..blessings
2006-10-24 00:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by connie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, let me get this right, now all of a sudden you're worried about your wife ?? Give me a break dude !! Clean your act up, stop cheating on her and get your marriage back together and in a good place and you both will be happy.
2006-10-24 02:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a few possibilities...
1. She's on another ride as well...
2. She's pretending not to care, thinking that you will carry on with it, and her private investigator will do the rest of the work.
3. If both of you have children, she may be tolerating your infidelity for the sake of your children.
2006-10-24 00:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by ET 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it means she doesn't care. Maybe she really chooses to believe you are just friends with this person.
You need to get out of this marriage.. Obviouly you don't want to be in it. Your wife deserves better.
2006-10-24 01:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care WHAT she is DOING OR NOT doing? You forfeit your rights when you emotionally and or sexually abandon the commitment you made to her. She just may be up to putting herself in a better position to take you to the cleaners.
2006-10-24 01:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋