This is especially for guys to answer cos my friend's boyfriend claims to love her but stopped calling her oversometimes and literally disapeared from her life, she is so confused cos they had no problems or arguements, she is confused, please she needs your advise, should she still hold on or forget about him? she loves him so.
2006-10-24 00:18:11 · 17 answers · asked by dgem 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The guy doesnt love your friend if he did then he wouldnt treat her like this..just because there was no problems or arguments doesnt mean anything..a lot of guys keep their feelings bottled up..he is totally in the wrong for how he has treated your friend but she will get over him with your help.
2006-10-24 01:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to this poor girl. I'm sorry to say that if a man treats you badly in any way, then I'm afraid he is just not really that interested. You see, if you care about something, or a person or even a pet, you look after it. You just do. You care about how it feels and you want to spend time with it. You just want to, need to even. So move on girl and find someone who can love you with actions as well as just words. There is a great book I can recommend. Its called "he's just not that into you" and its written by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. Very worth while reading. Good luck! x
2006-10-24 01:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by Bobbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look Honey, you DO NOT need a man TO TELL YOU this situation. Guys say they love girls, when really they either think they do and really its only lust, or, they were proper playing the girl and it was only fun to them, but they played the girl so bad and told her lies about love ca he knew he wouldnt get anywhere otherwise.
It sounds to me like he was playing her, he has someone out there who he REALY does think he loves, but in actaul fact he dont if he has cheated on her with your friend.But I AM TELLING you, there is someone else in the picture and this guy aint worth the sh!t of your shoe.
Tell your friend that she should move on, so when and IF he does come back for seconds, she is happy and she got someone new and she dont need him. She dont need hiim anyway, but it sounds like she think she does. Tell her to grow a back bone and stop being so weak, i say this with respect, trust me, we have all been there, so its even more reason to be cruel to be kind, deep down, you didnt even need to write that question, you know exactly what kinda scum of a man your dealing with, its obvious it aint love, he wouldnt of gone off would he. Be real!!!
Or he could be banged up in jail. just a thought.
Goodluck x
2006-10-24 00:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by london lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you stop loving someone there has to be a moment when you go from loving to not... so yes. But it sounds like he was just stringing her along. Probably has some others on the go. sorry
2006-10-24 00:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by mrbatfink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like the guy did not want to commit to this relationship...men do have a problem speaking truthfully about their deeper inner thoughts...
Only solution is to find out where he has gone if possible.....
If he is not found then best solution is to walk away from him...i am sorry she has been treated like this but there could be a reason behind it.....he may have found someone else.
Good luck!
2006-10-24 00:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"i love you." it's too easy for some guys to say. some think this is the only way to her vagina. say it and you are in, literally. so they use the phrase and the girl until a better thing comes along.
sorry. I think she has been dumped but he is not man enough to tell her. Boys do that.
2006-10-24 00:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her she has anger administration matters and get her into some style of psychological well being practitioner shrink counseling instructions. If she says "anger administration issues? me? the subject is YOU!! i'm no longer loopy. AREEEE YOUUU attempting to propose i'm CRAAZZZYYYY!!!???? i will wring your neeck extremely of the MOOPP" then fly birdy, fly. provide her one hazard to get herself dealt with for anger administration. Failure to conform ends up in termination of marriage.
2016-11-25 01:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well his a fucker and a liar. **** him, tell her that. Say him comes back, say they get married, say they have children and say he disappear someday, what happens then?!?!
Kick him under his *** if he comes back, because people like that have so much issues with them self and they don't know what they want in there lives.
Help you friend and go party and have as much fun as you can. Believe you me, its the best medicine!
2006-10-24 00:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by confussie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think so - yes- espeially if you're a woman! I doesn't mean you don't really love someone, just that sometimes they really annoy you and you forget!! It's impossible to feel in LOVE all the time!
2006-10-24 00:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by Philadelphia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe there is something whereby he is just not ready to settle down into a relationship. The only one who can answer this is him - they need to get together and talk. xx
2006-10-24 00:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋