The thing is that we've decided to settle down, the problem came when we went to the clinic and got tested for HIV, i'm glad to say we're both negative. Now boyfriend has stopped using a condom and only told me three days ago. He says if i'm pregnant i should keep it. i would like to be the mother of his child, it's just that i've got other dreams to fulfil. The thought of an abortion freaks me out and i wouldn't know where to start looking for a clinic for safe termination. Any suggestions?
2006-10-24 00:13:35 · 6 answers · asked by Lucky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is no safe abortion. Women have died during and after every procedure there is. Go to a clininc that offeres alternitavies you can find one in the yellow pages. They will talk with you and many can show you pictures of your baby or at least get you a test to see if you really are with child. There is a lot of help for women in your position. Take your time because this is a decision you will Never Forget. Here is a number I found under abortion services they have contacts nation wide whereever you are call them, talk to them and they will do all they can to help you. 225-272-3680 or on the web at www.achoice.org
2006-10-24 01:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by D J Honestly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being that your are a woman and you give birth to your child not him it is entirely your decision on what you want to do. He is entitled to have an opinion obviously because it is 50% his responsibility. But just remember it is your body and your choice on whether or not you want to reproduce. It is no one else's decision but yours. Having a child will ultimately change all the priorities in your life and you may not be able to full fill your dreams.
2006-10-24 07:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by Chris J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An abortion would HAUNT YOu for years. You will always wonder who that special little one would of been.
IF YOU didn't use protection with sex, then you NEED to be prepared to be a parent. If you had things you wanted to accomplish........well you should of thought of that before you had sex unprotected. Your dreams might have to be put on hold or get them slower than planned.
You had unprotected sex and you need to be adult enough to face the consquences of that. Abortion will leave you empty and always wondering who that precious little one was.
If you are doing grown up things (like sex) you need to be ready for grown up things, like a child.
2006-10-24 07:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well keep the baby abortion can harm the mother and the baby it may cause you not to have any more kids. but you can put it up for adoption you don't even get to See the baby they just give the baby to a loving family that has been hand picked so go w/ the pregnancy and put it up for adoption or just keep it
2006-10-24 07:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by number1lil_devil293 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congrats!!! being a mother of his child means he love you so much, try to ask your family because for sure they are the one who will care so much, there are lots of clinics that you can go to get the best info of taking care of your baby...
2006-10-24 07:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by Chingu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes keep the kid you should be shamed to kill it you made it and should let it live its life its the same as murdercan you realy have the heart to kill a kid?
2006-10-24 07:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by thatguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋