My best frind got pregnant with my boyfriend (not going into details) but now my friend says she wants to still be friends and if i can be the godmother do you think i should forgive her. I want to because we have been best friends since primary school.
2006-10-23 23:50:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I'd Prolly tell them to have a great life together...Hope you have a healthy baby...Been nice knowing you...Adios'...How can she be a friend, if shes playing with YOUR boyfriend. I wouldn't give him the time of day if he asked for it...
2006-10-24 00:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure you should forgive her........who are we to judge we all make mistakes
but, has she came to you and ask you for forgiveness? And os she relly regretting the pain she caused you? And about bing the godmother ...... if you feel you want to do this in your heart then go ahead. But, know that this will cause you some feelings in the future.
Some would say go on with your life and really thinking abuot it after i forgave i would do the same cause it happened to me my friend messed around with my bf and i forgave her and left him but, when i got another boyfriend she tried to do the same again and that is when i really stopped talking to her. Cause once they do it they think we will always forgive them and they WILL do it again. So whatever your decision is it will be a life experience.
So good luck.
2006-10-24 09:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by Solitaire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends how you treat the friendship. If I were in your shoes, I will forgive her but I will never be the godmother of the baby and I will dumped the guy. To me this is consider as an act of betrayal of trust and anybody who does this, I won't considered him or her as my friend even though I can forgive him/her
2006-10-24 06:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They had betrayed you once. Wouldnt there be a 2nd time? Do you still believe in them?
For purposes of self-respect it is better to decline such a proposal!
You should forgive her but wounds doesnt heal that fast. You had been best friends since primary school , did she think of that way too?
2006-10-24 07:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you forgive her? Only be the god-mother if you can forgive her. It's going to hurt like hell when she has the baby and your boyfriend is all happy and involved and everybody is oohing and aahing over the baby. Think things over, if you can truly find it in your heart to forgive her, then go ahead, if not, then walk away. I'm not sure why she did that, but she had no concern for your feelings and neither did your boyfriend.
2006-10-24 07:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he still your b/f?
Do you still want to be friends with her?
Are you sure it is your B/F baby?
There are far too many questions to this problem that needs sorting out long before being godmother to a baby.
Sort out what you want from either friendship before deciding what they want from you. Only you know your friend and remember she has to live with this for the rest of her life.
2006-10-24 08:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a soap opera.
Well you have been friends with the girl for longer than the boy.
Maybe you should be glad you found out early that your boyfriend sleeps around and that your girlfriend isn't too bashful to get laid by your fellow.
Sorry if that seems harsh but it is the truth.
Maybe we should blame it all on Hollywood with its, "Sleep with anybody you want to" , kind of movies.
To err is human to forgive is divine.
If you can forgive them both good for you. If you can forgive only one of them you are stronger than me.
Your boyfriend will ALWAYS have rights to visit HIS child, can you live with that?
Is he going to stay with you or is he going to be with her or is he just going to split and leave all three of you. You, your girlfriend, and his baby?
2006-10-24 07:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by SEEKER 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really is your choice. I mean that is not a friend to her. If she slept with your boyfriend behind yur back then I do not think that you could be friends with her again. That was a violation of the friendship and trust that you two had for each other and she decided to throw it all away basically. So it is your choice. Just think, if you were still friends with her, would she try to sleep with your future boyfriends again?
2006-10-24 09:18:49 · answer #8 · answered by spyder90tishuez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is serious Id walk away from the both of them. Your boyfriend cheated on you and your best friend betrayed you, you deserve to hang around much better people who respect and care about you. Obviuosly these two dont..
2006-10-24 10:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by onehotmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your definition of a best friend? I don't think I could ever be friends with someone again if they betrayed me in such a fashion. Just because you have known her for alot of years don't mean you have still be friends. Friendship should be about trust, and it sounds like she's not someone you can trust.
2006-10-24 09:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by Bekka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure u'll be able to handle that?
How do u feel about ur godchild being ur ex's child - if u can be sure that you won't blame the child for his parents mistakes then it's up to you.However i personally would refuse to be godmother and ditch both friend and boyfriend.
2006-10-24 07:43:53 · answer #11 · answered by Bianca A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋