Im sorry i had to ask this question but sometimes i get a little scared that there is no one waiting to embrace my son. I believe in our Lord but these thoughts keep running thru my head. He passed away 3 weeks ago and we only found out about his tumor 2 months ago so everything went very fast. My heart feels empty and i cant stop thinking about ways that i may have helped him. If there is a god, then why does he do this? Im sorry, i love god, but sometimes i get angry at him too.
2006-10-23 23:49:56 · 5 answers · asked by jamjam 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
The loss of a child is a very difficult moment in life. God didn't take your child so you would hurt or be in pain. He allowed your son to die, so that your son wouldn't be in anymore pain now or in the future. I am sorry for your loss. God is out there sometimes things happen to us and it's not punishment, it is hard, but later on its for the best. Imagine what the child's life might have been like if he lived. He would be handycap in some way as the tumor grew. He would miserable and you would be upset, bc your son was in pain and suffering. Here's my suggestion. Today, may a choice to earnestly pray. Prayer isn't some special thing that only a few can do, but it's simply a conversation between you and God. Today tell the Lord how you are feeling and tell him you don't want to feel this pain anymore. Ask him for peace and give to him all the pain and sorrow you feel. If you do this and don't take the upset feelings back, you'll discover the miraculous peace of God. It's hard, but God is there. Even when things happen and we don't understand it, it's for the best because it could've been worse if he had continued on with life. I know as a mom that you want your child to be in as little pain as possible. Where your son is now, there is no pain, no more tears, no more sadness, or fears. He is safe and happy far beyond what he could've been on earth. Keep your chin up your going to make it thru this.
2006-10-24 00:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason for everything that happens. God didn't do this to hurt you or because He is selfish. God loves you and your son and although it may sound extremely superficial... I believe that your son had completed his purpose on earth. I don't think God just decides that at this second he wants to kill someone.. It's all part of God's plan. You got to spend time with your son and you should appreciate that you had a son, that you could love and cherish. Im sure that one day you will reunite with him in Heaven. Till then just thank God that He has blessed you with a shelter, food, clothes and the remaining family that you have.
P.S. Please read Jeremiah 29
May God bless you!
2006-10-24 00:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sweety it is normal to feel like that, and i know that no answer can ever bring you the comfort that you need. But i do believe God had a plan for your little one even if his life was so short he was given to you for a reason, but God need him now more.
In the Bible God said: let the children come to me. Our children are given to us, to look after they are still God's kids just like you and me.
God will bless you and your family and once again i am so sorry for your loss, i can just imagine how you feel my boy is 8 months now
2006-10-24 00:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by sweet - angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I to question god sometimes, It hurts alot to lose someone you love. But I do believe there is a heaven and we will all be reunited with our loved ones just keep your faith in him he wont let you down in the end.
2006-10-24 00:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by GQsmooth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please accept my condolences for your incredible loss.Faith is a powerful thing,without it the daily struggles life throws at us seems to have no relief.The wonder of a child has a spirit that is overwhelming,that much beauty can not disappear.It has to go somewhere when the vessel of it's existence fails.God collects his wonders and savors them when that happens.
2006-10-23 23:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋