2006-10-23 22:53:37 · 9 answers · asked by notProudatAll 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you truly love her and want your marriage to work,you have to stand by her and get her the help that she needs. She needs to get to counseling and fast,before she ruins not only her life,but yours! Gambling is a sickness and she really needs counseling and your support,and not only this week,but for the rest of your lives. Gambling will destroy lives......I hope that you get the help that you both need,and everything works out for both of you!
2006-10-23 23:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by roses are red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to get help and you need to get serious do not fund her habit dont not let her look after any of the finances only give her enough to get by on remove all handy and credit cards if she doesnt want to do this then she is not willing to stop and you to tell her to go.
Gambling is a disease and should be treated as such. There are support groups for families of gamblers look into getting into a support network. She needs to recognise that she has a problem.
Hope this works out for you its not an easy thing to go through
2006-10-24 06:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is a problem.....but leaving is really not the answer.... maybe together you can seek help and make sure she realises that she has to give her full co-operation.... otherwise........you will take measures... to protect yourself and your earnings...so that she will not be able to waste it on gambling. She will need your support here.... I hope you love her enough to try.... and that she loves you enough to respond to help.
Good luck.
2006-10-24 09:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Gambling is a illness, So would you leave your wife if she had breast cancer? Or would you get her help and stand by her through it?
2006-10-24 07:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by catzbak1104 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person who can help her is herself. I'd make it perfectly clear either she gets help or I'm gone. I'm not about to stick around and lose what I worked hard for. She wouldn't put stress in my life.
2006-10-24 07:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wifes not so i cant really say but otherwise id say yes i probably would stay with her just cos i love her
2006-10-24 06:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by mustang_rws 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men I know would love a gumbler.
2006-10-24 05:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like being gumed, but she should see a dentist.
2006-10-24 05:56:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep all money and valuables out of her reach.
2006-10-24 06:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by amylynn2274 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋