i was in a relationship for 7 yrs with this guy only on our 7yr anniversary i found out he got some girl pregnant but he still loved me thats what he said and i never thought he can do that to us
i decided to end it and i became single for 4 months then.....
came this wonderful guy
i've known him for the past 5 yrs
he's my brother's best friend
but.....................
he is married
i know he will not leave his wife for me and i don't want him to
even if they r on the brink of divorce
i love him and i'm not dating him because some girl took my ex bf
this is not revenge
i'm just having the time of my life
2006-10-23 22:26:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-10-23 22:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by curiousmode 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to get hurt. It is a fact because you know he is not willing to leave his wife. If he loved you and wanted to be with you...he would be with you right now or filed for divorce. You may seem like you are having a wonderful time but what comes around comes back full circle and you will regret your choices.
2006-10-26 16:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by dotherightthing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you? Honey you need to get a ******* grip. Your dream guy is married. You remember how hard it was to hear that your bf had cheated on you. Now imagine how wifey is going to feel if she finds out about you. Just like this guy told you that he's on the brink of divorce your ex probably told his baby momma that you two were breaking up just to get some booty. Wise up and get rid of this guy that is so nice that he's willing to cheat on his wife. If he lied to God, what makes you think that he won't lie to you? MOVE ON!!!!!!!
2006-10-23 22:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by hot.sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being in love with a married man will put you into a position of having the guilt all the time. it is ok for him becuase no matter what happen he has a family to come back with. what about your future you will end up heart broken again. it is up to you maybe now you're not thinking the a right thing as you might be looking for quick fix. but honestly you'll end up being the loser here so be honest to yourself. last thing it is all up to you. good luck.
2006-10-23 22:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by notProudatAll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how sad??what goes around comes around. you're going to find yourself in that same situtation:pregnant and looking stupid. how great can he be if he is cheating on his wife. you said you know he will not leave his wife so why waste your time? how did you fall in love that quick? come on you're in lust and just looking for someone to take your hurt feelings out on. in reality you are the one that is getting played (but at least you are enjoying) so keep being the fool girl
2006-10-23 22:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by sweettee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you like to live dangerously, hon, try not to cross paths with the wife, because the sparks will really fly! I bet he's very proud of himself!!!!!
2006-10-23 22:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You nasty piece of work. You didn't dig it too much when it happened to you did you? Just what is it that you are asking anyway? If you want to know what we think of it.. I think you're a silly little selfish girl.
2006-10-23 22:43:35 · answer #7 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So are you looking for some kind of blessing from us or what? Whether you want him to leave her or not you know what you are doing is wrong.
2006-10-23 22:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
but...........he is married!!!!!! Doesn't that tell you something? It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that you need to stay away from this guy. Are you a glutton for punishment or something???
2006-10-23 22:32:38 · answer #9 · answered by mesierens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens...not the best situation...but you're not the first and won't be the last
2006-10-23 22:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋