i was in a relationship for 7 yrs with this guy only on our 7yr anniversary i found out he got some girl pregnant but he still loved me thats what he said and i never thought he can do that to us
i decided to end it and i became single for 4 months then.....
came this wonderful guy
i've known him for the past 5 yrs
he's my brother's best friend
but.....................
he is married
i know he will not leave his wife for me and i don't want him to
even if they r on the brink of divorce
i love him and i'm not dating him because some girl took my ex bf
this is not revenge
i'm just having the time of my life
2006-10-23 22:25:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-10-23 22:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by curiousmode 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have been through this before when you were with your ex bf. Can you imagine that if the guy's wife found out that you are are the third party in the relationship, how will she feel. No doubt you are not seeking revenge but what you are doing now is what is happening to your previous relationship.
Since you already know he won't leave his wife for you, why don't you carry on with your life.I believe that you can find someone that is better than these two guys in your life. You have to stop it early before others get hurt too
2006-10-24 07:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as he's married,you two should stay friends.Nothing more.Having an ongoing affair with a married man is a long & hurtfull situation.I know from personal expierience.If you love him you WILL want him to leave his wife.Even if you don't feel that way right now.I've been seeing A married man for 4 years now.His wife has known for almost the entire time.It's very difficult & I wouldn't reccomend putting yourself in that situation.
2006-10-24 05:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by upsrampbitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can pretty much bet he will never leave his wife. but, you are being unfair too your self when you could be loving some one openly and them loving you back in the same way. so you really do need too think about that. and don't cut your self so short just because some one screwed you over. you are a better person then that and you deserve more then that
2006-10-24 05:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by Ozark American 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So... what is your question exactly??
I'm not understanding if you're saying you're having an affair, or thinking of having one, or are just bragging about a married man liking you, or what.
STAY AWAY FROM HIM and stop thinking about him!!
That is so rude!
If someone was like with my husband I'd wring their neck!!!
2006-10-24 05:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well..this really isnt a question.. You mostly just state facts. Are you asking us if you are inlove with him? Because the only person here that knows that is you. What is it that you are really asking?
2006-10-24 05:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best is do not entangle and look for best other fellow for you. It is bad to disturb settled family life of others.
2006-10-24 06:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by pretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are playing with fire...stop it before it burn u alive........
2006-10-26 03:45:59 · answer #8 · answered by eZY jOHn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋