2006-10-23 21:56:35 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
How old are you, if you are over 18 then they don't need to know, if you are under then don't do it.
2006-10-23 21:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, assuming you're over the age of consent (for whatever country you live in), the answer is that it's nothing to do with anyone apart from you and your girlfriend.
If you feel the need to discuss your bedromm practices with others, you're clearly not yet mature enough to be having sex. It's a private and intimate matter.
The question is, why would you want to tell your parents? Boasting, a claim to "being grown up"? Or, are you and they members of one of the more intrusive and controlling religious sects, in which case, I'd definitely suggest that you grow up fast. Sex and superstition don't mix, as you can see from the number of people who suggest that you operate under 2000 year old rules and regulations for a primitive society. If you live in the modern world, than it's for you to choose, not some mythical fascist godlet.
2006-10-23 22:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Committing to sex when you know your parents won't approve is opening up a whole can of worms, especially more so if you don't even know if that's what you want to do. Get some maturity and reason over this before you go crazy in love. Tell your girlfriend that you have to think through this before you do anything. She's the one that might have a potential kid, so you better watch it.
2006-10-23 21:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by bansri47 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow. this is a question? Im surprized..
I waited til I was ready for sex and of age, but I never went and told my parents that I was gonna do it..
just use condoms or you may get more than it's worth..
although, when I was older, they DID hear me.. which I feel really bad about cause I thought they were at work at the time.. but I was very much of age and they KNEW I was having sex as my bf lived in their house with me.. opps.. it happens when you assume things though..
2006-10-24 04:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by senacia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont say what your or your girlfriends ages are so this is a hard one! If you or your girlfriend are under16 you should not as it is ilegal! If you are over 16 realy as long as you are both consenting and take the proper protection there is no reson why you should tell anyone as this is between you and your girlfriend as long as you dont go bragging to your mates like a twatt.
2006-10-23 22:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by stewart 873 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should NOT have sex with her unless you are married to her. Read 1 Corinthians chapters 5,6,7,10,etc. "Flee fornication.", etc. There is a scripture which says,"Marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge." I love you and do not want to sound like I am judging you. I am only imparting scriptures designed to help us all be happy and reach the fullness of our potential. God bless you as you pray, search the scriptures, and fast if necessary before making a decision that may have eternal consequences.
2006-10-23 22:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by Concerned 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe you are asking if it is ok to have sex without your parents knowing? I am 29 and I dont tell my mom about me and my "husband". If you are asking this question you shouldnt be having sex at all.
2006-10-23 22:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by precious z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd refuse to have anything more to do with a girl like that... she's obviously very badly brought-up and quite without principle...!
You're much better off without her. Take up stamp collecting or maybe train-spotting and put all thoughts of her behind you
2006-10-26 23:19:06 · answer #8 · answered by TruthHurts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you 12? if so do NOT have sex until you are mature enough to handle all the repercussions and thats when you're of legal age to make decisions for youself. if you're an adult and you feel the need to ask i'd say grow a pair , cut the aprin strings, and be a damn man.
2006-10-23 22:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell you what, here:
Go tell your parents that you are going to do it: and, invite them in, as spectators, too.
(Shucks, it's the same as watching two dogs breeding. Isn't it?)
The more spectators, the "merrier". Why not invite the whole town? Charge an entrance fee--earn a little money, that way, too.
P.S: Is English your birth language? It seems a little "stilted", there.
2006-10-23 22:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by hohobankhamen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you over the age of consent?
if so, what has it got to do with your parents? I'm sure my folks dont want to know everytime I have sex. I would think my mum would be a bit emarrased if iI rang her every time I was gonna "do it".
2006-10-27 09:30:17 · answer #11 · answered by shnorkings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋