Hi, OK so yesterday I was home alone because my mom was out of town and some of my friends came over. They were a little buzzed and they brought a 5 gal. bucket of homebrew with them. It was tied with one of my pillow cases (I have no idea how they got it) Anyways, they opened it up and started drinking it with my moms good wine glasses. I told them to stop it and not to drink in my house. There was about 7 drunk kids in my house and I told them to leave. Then I moved through them and was like "Goddamn you ******* drunks" and my good friend Tracey was like "WHAT?!" then she shoved me and I said "don't push me" but she said she could push me if she wants. Then I slapped her as hard as I could...which was the worst thing I could have done! All of a sudden we both were rolling around on the floor punching and pulling eachothers hair...you know...catfight...anyways. Everyone broke us apart and she was all up in my face yelling at me to hit her again. I kept saying no then she slapped me
2006-10-23 19:15:35 · 24 answers · asked by Maureen W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I just sat there on my bed and finally they all left then Tracey and another girl came back and i was still sitting on my bed. They started yelling at me and then started taking turns hitting my face and head. I kept saying I was sorry and started crying. Then they backed me up into a room still hitting me. Finally I slid down to the floor and just sat there with the hitting me. I kept saying "Help me...someone please help me, God please help me please." and they're like "shut up ***** u ain't even christian" then i got hit really hard in the eye and I finally got an idea and when they hit me I just tumbled over and pretended to be knocked out. They were like "oh i knock her out...cool!" I was so sad because i thought they both were my friends! now they're trying to make up stories about me and stuff to keep the heat off of them because my mom is pressing charges but now i'm scared to go back to school because they said they'd beat me up even worse...this happened yesterday and i'm 16
2006-10-23 19:20:23 · update #1
Well, I live in a village in rural alaska, ppl call it "Sin City" because of all the bad stuff that happens here. The population is a grand 300 ppl. The nearest cop is in the next village! They messed up my face so bad i had to fly to the hospital for x rays. I didn't really have any choice in my friends. These were the ppl that mattered to be friends with unless you wanted ur life to be hell. Its like this : you mess with someones relative, then all the relatives are against you...pretty much everyone hates me now. My mom is sending me away and my dad is fighting for custody of me now...
2006-10-23 19:25:41 · update #2
I told the cops, i mean my dad is cop for crying out loud but he doesn't live here! They've already pulled the girls outta school but they're saying that it was my alcohol and that i invited them over to drink it. Heck i don't even know how to make that stuff! but it just really hurts because now my mom is doubting me and so is my dad
2006-10-23 19:28:58 · update #3
omg fact : I was sober the whole time
2006-10-23 19:30:07 · update #4
Oh yeah my question is : Should I just go back to school and try to stick it out? Or do I move and start all over?
2006-10-23 19:34:57 · update #5
Wow, with friends like yours who needs enemies?
2006-10-23 19:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by ihatestupidclowns 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First things FIRST as everyone else has said this b**** is NOT your friend. Your friend would have been getting her @$$ kicked with you not the one kicking it. Secondly, some of these people on here are jerks. Don't listen to them. I don't know what your relationahip is with your dad but maybe it isn't such a bad idea to go live with him. If you only have a choice of so many friends in your town then it would be a fresh start for you. Its not cool being 16 and having to make all new friends, but it also isn't cool to be scared to go to school every day either. Consider your ptions about your dad. He is just worried about you. Thats what parents do. You will understand one day. Then, I'm glad your mom is pressing charges. That is absolutely ridicilous and I hope they get that girl for underage drinking also. And whose ever parents it was letting the kids make moonshine in their house. Sit down and have a talk with your mom. Tell her your weren't drinking and you aren't sure why she doesn't believe you. Ask her what you can do to get her to believe you. If you sit down and have an honest talk with her you will get farther. Good luck if you need anything e-mail me.
2006-10-23 19:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by Kellen's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good news: youre ok and theyre being punished as they should be. You know who your real friends are now and also have learned some valuable lessons in the process.
Its a pretty rotten situation and nothing can be said to aleve the shock, fear and anger someone feels when being violently assaulted.
I have noticed that alot of the answers here are .to put it bluntly, assanine! Obviously alot of these people have never been violently assaulted and sent to the hospital over it. if they have theres alot of growing up to be done around here.
Anyway ,hang in there. watch your back and learn everything you possibly can from this experience. Trust is a valuable asset but we have to learn who and what to trust unfortunately that process isnt always easy or fair. Stay strong
2006-10-23 19:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your Mom should not be pressing charges because you were all under the influence underage and just unsupervised. Secondly, no one should ever have the advantage over you in your own house.. You should have picked up a lamp and cracked one of them over the head.. That would have gotten the other one off of you.. This was a terrible lesson to learn, and I'm not doubting they were or are your friends liquor gives you courage and makes you do stupid things!!
2006-10-23 19:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do crazy things when they're drunk. You are now a victim. Even if she pushed you first, still you pushed back. you must not have known the escalation would naturally come next. You are lucky, you are alive. The others did not hurt you, and you didn't hurt them fatally. Stop and think. I can tell you respect your family, you didn't think it would get this far. Now, you must break all ties with these people, as they now know the lay out of your home, you never want to bring bad things near your own family. Think, you must prepare yourself.
God bless us all...
2006-10-23 19:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im so sorry that happened! join a god school activity like cross country. the good ppl usualy join sports and stuff. lol. but stay away from them. sounds stupid but tell ur mom they came over and started drinking...Aaron if u read it them you'd know Tracey pushed her first...ur story seriously made me cry...i just read the additional details...im really sorry. it was good u pretended to be knocked out. omg. thats really sad! just be around witnesses at school. and remember if someoen comes in your house and starts to drink immmediately act like u get a phone call and tell them ur mom ot dad's coming home so they will leave(before they get drunk) but makes sure u have witnesses if they DO actually hit u at school. just stay away from them...im really sorry though. ppl go through this kind of stuff. its serious. im kinda a little younger then you but i can tell. like 2 years ago, i found out that someoen i knew hit someoen and cause him to get a 2,o00 dollar catscan. the person that he hit, made the person i knew pay 2,000 dollars for it even tho he could have gotten it free! sorry this was kinda long. but its serious. and pushing her back was self defense so there's nothing REALLY wrong with it.
2006-10-23 19:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow! I guess you have to get some new friends, the kind that have respect for you and your mother's house. And good friends are not hard to find. keep that in mind. And about being afraid to go to school, I would tell my mother the situation so maybe she can call the school. And I am glad she is pressing charges.
2006-10-23 19:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You never should have let them in. Then you let them in a second time? U wanted to get beat up or what? You never should have invited them over. You know you invited them there. How did they know your parents were gone? They are gonna beat you up again when you go back to school. Just be ready.
2006-10-23 20:10:27 · answer #8 · answered by Lou Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they shouldnt b drinkin in the first place
i say tell an adult u trust bout this
i say u should move to a different school jus in case ur friends might beat u up again if there still like in a beatin u up mood
this story is 1 of the most interestin stories
2006-10-23 19:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
She is not your friend. You need to speak to her in private and let her know that, it was innapropriate. Never, ever let your friend know when your mom leaves town. If you're mom has a good head on her shoulder you need to let her know what happened. Your friend's mom also needs to know. If the othetr people that were there knows you or your mom they also need to know. They could have done worst things to you. Next time call the cops and let them know that they were evading your property. Good luck!
2006-10-23 19:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by Junia Z 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Without giving second thought , just explain to your Mother and tell her each and every small point in detail . Take her advise and act accordingly . Trust your mom.
2006-10-23 19:24:50 · answer #11 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋