...my ex boyfriend every night?? I honestly just don't want to think about him at all, and don't during the day. Its just that every night, there he is again! Whats the deal???
P.S. We broke up months ago and haven't talked since if that makes any difference. Also, I've since moved on and went on a couple of dates with other guys in the time that we haven't been together. And does the fact that he shows up to my favorite bar - which he hates - only to stare at me (he even started bringing a girl with him to join in the staring, oddly enough) all night have any affect on this you think???
2006-10-23 18:30:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
It's sounds if you, as well as him, have unresolved issues in regards to this relationship. Do you still have feelings for him? It sounds as if you do... Feelings can be good or bad towards him to be obviously so frequent in your thoughts and dreams. As for him stalking and trying to make you jealous certainly sounds of unresolved feelings. Why did you break up? Who's choice was it? Ask yourself and be truly honest with yourself???? Is this over? Do you want it to be? Are there things you need to say or do to achieve closure. Only you know the truth and it only matters how you "FEEL" ... Work towards your true desire. Peace........
2006-10-23 18:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Martini-69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you want me back. You can't get me outa your mind because you don't want me outa you. LOL.
It means that you just can't get him out of your mind. You spent a lot of time with him and you haven't found a replacement. Even when you do find a replacement you'll keep thinking about him because that switch is turned on now and you're worried about not thinking about him so you do think about him. The best thing to do is give it time and keep yourself preoccupied with other things and other people. Try not going to that bar. Pick out a new one and you and your friends go there. Seperate yourself from things you guys used to do together.
You'll be ok...you'll be over him and thinking of a new guy soon enough.
2006-10-23 18:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by Bonecrusher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's that you have some unresolved issues with him. The fact that he is still around keeps him in your thoughts. Maybe you should find a new favorite bar for a while to help - out of sight ... out of mind.
2006-10-23 18:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by bebe928 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means u r finding it hard to let go.
and the only person who can help u is u urself.
u make an extra effort to shut him out during the day, so he shows up in ur dreams, which isn't unusual. just relax, with time, it'll stop.
snap out of it, girl, and start living again.
good luck.
2006-10-23 18:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lone Ranger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm unsure as to why you're dreaming of him. My guess would be that you miss him on some level. You can also go to the web site I put down below. It's helped me with 2 weird dreams I have dreampt. Best wishes & sweet dreams!
2006-10-23 20:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by bizzaro9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-24 03:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you dont like him in your thoughts at all..... what a nightmare....at least you are falling, or something----yeah, you probably just let the thought opf him nag you too much in your subconcious mind in the day........ the more you think about your dreams--- the more hell show up- cause youre thinking about him........either that or hes haunting you at night.......wish you luck w/ that :)
2006-10-23 18:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by nickname4anne 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I THINK YOU ARE TRYING TOO REPRESS SOME FEELINGS,ESCAPE FROM THE PAST!
I THINK YOU SHOULD DEAL WITH SOME ISSUES WITH YOUR EX IN ORDER TO MOVE ON!!
2006-10-24 01:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by witch_dea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a hard one , it depends on how much you loved him . and how compatable you were , if you dream of him , it makes me think that you somehow still miss him
2006-10-23 18:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by joe p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you still love him though.. you still have not completely moved on.. dreams are actually mirrors of our subconscious minds.. its something that we cannot deny for it works involuntarily.
2006-10-23 18:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by --gWynEtH-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋