okay there is this guy and when i first saw him i was attracted to him i have told him in many ways that i want to have a intimate time with him but he keeps saying time is everything its almost been two years i mean we are cool and all but he wont say nothing to me i mean one night we almost had sex but didnt and he dont even remember what happend hes 32 and im 22 is thier a problem with age or my weight or what im soo confused how do i get with this man i want him so bad hes single no women his own house and 6 cars so whats the problem tell me?
2006-10-23 18:22:47 · 15 answers · asked by s_reneeus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He just doesn't want to have a relationship with you. There is nothing wrong with you. Just because you are not someones type doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. Maybe he has his own issues. Maybe he's been burned before and just doesn't want to be in a relationship. If he has the house and the cars and stuff, maybe he works to hard to have a real relationship. Or maybe he's thinking beyond that, maybe he doesn't want a relationship that will turn into marriage, then divorce, then he will have to give the ex half of his stuff. You just never know....but don't automatically assume its you.....because chances are, it has nothing to do with you.
You should really work on your self esteem......as hard as that is. I don't have much either!! Good luck
2006-10-23 18:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by justwondering 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are young. Don't waste anymore time on him. I am not trying to be harsh, but you have given him the green light and he has not gone ahead for 2 years?? He is just not into you like that. There is someone out there who will be though, so don't waste anymore of your time on him. Be friends, but find the guy you are meant to be with! Maybe he is gay........
2006-10-24 01:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a toned body freak and obsessed with sport person i can only tell u - this is your weight. no offence. but if a fat guy was hitting on me, even if he were super sweet and caring and whatever i wouldn't settle for him , cos overweight people disgust me. no offence, but maybe instead of breaking your head over this guy u should lose weight and look good, and when u re maybe he will come on his own
2006-10-24 01:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he may have an issue with the age difference and feels that it is too great. You could ask him if that is why he holds back, but it is really his decision if he doesnt want to get involved with you on that level.
2006-10-24 01:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by auburn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems like a jerk. and the age difference isnt so bad i dont think. he probably has smething against your weight. if thats the case, hes a jerk and you should forget about him. b/c all guys that feel a connection to a girl would jump at any given chance. and thats what you want right? mutual attraction.......
2006-10-24 01:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a coward, sweetie.
He wont tell you the truth because he does not want to hurt your feelings, cut him some slack on that one.
He either does not want to be with you or he is homosexual.
Either way, leave him be.
Move on and you will find someone else that you want, I promise.
There are many attractive men.............
mandy
2006-10-24 01:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by cking_pOise... 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
single? 22 yrs old? own house? has 6 cars?
excuse me, but is he selling crack?
he's usin you as hig big momma. obviously he has all the gals for se*x around him and you are plainly the sweet big momma to confide.
dump the relationship baby and get somebody who will be of your level, accept you and want to have you in bed. sorry to be frank, but no point in expecting more from the current fella...
good luck
2006-10-24 01:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by Mr ME 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, you are not the problem. Its him! He is 32 and truthfully, he's into cars not women. Move on to another prince. Please dont waste time with him. Whatever you choose, good luck!
2006-10-24 01:38:16 · answer #8 · answered by Lani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's for religious reasons he doesn't want to have sex or he could be gay. Maybe you're not his type. The only way to find out is ask him.
2006-10-24 01:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by lucy02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him straight out what he wants!!
He mite want a **** buddy or a serious relationship or enev worse he probablky isnt attracted to u if its bben that long with out any reciprocation!!
2006-10-24 01:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋