2006-10-23 18:07:46 · 8 answers · asked by s_reneeus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweetheart, you are as beautiful as you see yourself. You don't have to live up to what a man, or anybody for that matter, thinks of you. As long as you love how you look and you know that you look gorgeous, then that is all that should matter. besides, the only 2 people in life that you need to please is God and yourself. You must love yourself before you can love someone else. Get that self esteem up and stop worrying so much about what others think. Like Martin says, "a critic is someone who can't do what you do, so they find some way to criticize you." In your case, those guys wish they had half as much woman as you are, and trust me, if they are that immature to make corny remarks like that about you, then, honey, they don't deserve you anyway!
2006-10-23 18:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by RJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question is,do you think you are attractive? If these so called guys do not find you attractive then that's them,not all men have the same taste in women.Every women is beautiful in her own unique way you will find a man that finds you attractive to him inside and out. apparently you just been dating men that have only the "model type" in mind.don't worry a good man shall come along that will see your beauty
2006-10-24 01:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by schazell j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can't really see your pic's because they are very small, but from what I can see you a beautiful woman. You are on the bigger side, but believe me girl......I have seen WWWWAAAYYY worse. Don't worry about what these lowlife, materialist, shallow dudes say!! Those aren't the kinds you want to be with anyway! Men are such a hassle anyway!! These days you can't trust em farther than you can throw them!!! Just go with the flow and let your personality be the thing that attracts, not your outside appearance. Because if you find someone that is attracted to both your personality and your appearance, you win!!
2006-10-24 01:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by justwondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you haven't met the right man. Because "Mr. Right" wouldn't put you down or make you feel any less attractive than you are. Another thing, you shouldn't depend on others to tell you something that you should already know. Do you think that you're attractive? That is the question you should ask yourself, long before you seek others insight.
2006-10-24 01:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every once in a while we wonder whether people find us attractive or not, and that is normal. but one thing you should always keep in mind: God created us in different shapes, sizes, colors,etc... for a reason, and he also gave us different tastes and interests in things. you seem like a nice and honest girl, and im sure u'll find many guys who'ld b interested in you.you have to remember though that the most important thing is ur confidence, no matter what other ppl say: who cares about them after all!!!
2006-10-24 01:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by Iwonder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't found the right man. There is someone who won't care about your size or your glasses. You change those things for you not for others. Always be true to yourself.
2006-10-24 01:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by 7yrs2go 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find somebody that is attracted to your personality as well. There is definitely somebody out there for you. Keep your eyes open and your heart true and it will come along. Be patient.
2006-10-24 01:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by RIDLEY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, dont let anyone ever tell you you are unattractive. you are as attractive as you feel. just have confidence, the right guy will come around
2006-10-24 01:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by Syd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋