Its been more than 1 year now, that me and he are together. In the beginning he started this relation by saying he wants to be a very good friend of mine , i said ok, and we started then. But after 1 & half month, i came to realize that its something more than friendship. I discussed this thing with him , then he agreed too at that time. Times passed by, we started dating each other, bcoz we were in same office, so we usualy met daily at that time, and slowly slowly, we started going physical also. Than 1 day i asked him to marry me, then he refused my proposal, and said he cant go beyound his family wishes. Iagreed on his point, and again we continued our relation. but it was crossing all the limits. Then i asked him , aise hi, that u love me na ? he did not reply me, then i said u cant marry me thats ok, but still admit it atleast that u love me,then i said i want to QUIT, then he came to me & said he likes me alot, care 4 me and wants to be with me till the time i get married, help
2006-10-23 18:07:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Litchi, as i said in ur last question, I think it is time for you to get over him. Infact, when he refused to marry u saying that he cant go against his family wishes, if you cared for yourself, you should have left him, leave alone get physical. You should have asked him if he had taken his family permission to take you as a gf !!!
For all you know, he may like to continue this relationship even after you've got married to some one else..... THEN???
So, mark my word, get away from him for your own sake.
2006-10-24 01:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by Explore_Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I feel that your bf is not ready to have a long term commitment with you yet. You really need to tell him how you feel coz by dragging on in this sort of relationship both of you will get hurt eventually.
Sometimes it is better to let go of this relationship earlier and find someone who loves and care for you.
2006-10-24 07:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you yes, but maybe he got scared when you said you loved him. I think you are freaking him out by asking him to confess that he loves you too. Also maybe he really does mean what he said about his family wishes in which case you should just try to leave it alone.
2006-10-24 01:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got pride, move on and dump him aside. Since he is not interested in getting married, maybe he have not eat and swallow you yet that why he seen to be no interest on you. Don't waste your time on him, he is not your worth. A better man is always there, just go and look for him .
2006-10-24 01:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as sad as it is for you to accept you cant make someone love you . he could be telling you the truth about his family's wishes , and maybe he cares for you . but he is not ready to make a commitment with you . move on and find someone who will love you in return . because true love is what you deserve . don't settle for less . good luck
2006-10-24 01:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love him and you want to see him on the bf/gf level
2006-10-24 01:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by Greg M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is ready for commitment.
2006-10-24 01:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋