I only knew my husband 1 month before we married. He forgets a LOT & when I tell him something he SAID OR DID, HE SAYS I'M LYING! He doesn't have alzheimers. He is a Preacher, but he's a hypocrite. He preaches on what NOT TO DO & WHAT TO DO, but lots of times does the opposite himself! Please help!!
2006-10-23 17:53:43 · 12 answers · asked by goodgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hello, Write down 5 things that you appreciate about your husband, the next day write down 5 more things that you appreciate about your life with him, continue doing this everyday until you start feeling better about your marriage. Stay focus on the good things about yourself, so right down 5 things you appreciate about you everyday. I am not kidding, if you choose to stay focus on the negitive that is what you will get more of in your life. Sweety, I want you to have a good life, you are adorable, loveable, you are kind, and wonderful women, be these things now and your life will change in unbelieveable ways. I send to you mich love and many blessings
2006-10-23 18:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by bonnie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he is a preacher doesn't give him a free pass to treat you so disrespectfully. Would you accept this kind of behaviour from a stranger? From another family member? No. I say take your dignity, your pride, and your self-worth and leave him. With the rush to marry, I think you're there as someone to fill the "wife" space in his life....it looks good to others that the preacher's got a wife.
2006-10-23 18:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by chnchita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to re examine this relationship and decide on if you want this man in your life for the rest of your life.If your not happy with what has been going on then confront him about it. Tell him your not happy. If he refuses to talk about it ..then maybe your with the wrong man. Maybe your wasting presious time. Dont stay with him if your not happy and content...because one day you will wake up a old wrinkled woman wondering why you wasted all those years.
2006-10-23 18:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by bipolar_diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself the question do you really love the guy and do you have plans to spend the rest of your life with him. Try to get help from a marriage counselor. Life is to short to be miserable.
2006-10-23 18:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Biometric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is human too. He should know better though. Try marriage councelling and tell him you both need to mend the marriage. He should not talk behind your back that is a big no no.
2006-10-23 17:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't keep fighting. Go to counseling. Hopefully as a preacher he'll want to do what is necessary to heal the marriage.
2006-10-23 17:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by city_savvy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just don't do what he wants, do the opposite,reverse sociology he might think twice to do it again. You have to treat men like this sometimes as they think they have all the power .So put your foot down love
2006-10-23 19:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A liar, hypocrit, backstabber = PREACHER
Try to communicate w/ out getting defensive...be indifferent for while. Tell him how he makes you feel and give him time to do something about. Should his BS continue...leave his ***.
2006-10-23 18:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by Petra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety you really rushed into your marriage, although I admit me and my husband got married kinda fast as well but I knew him for months before we started dating but my advice divorce his sorry ***, he doesn't deserve a wife. Plus you deserve better
2006-10-23 17:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by clea_duvall_fan@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
record him-then let him listen to himself. Its not totally fair though because he wont know you are being recorded and you will-but it might make him think a little more before he speaks to you.
2006-10-23 19:34:04 · answer #10 · answered by mistshevious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋