I just ended a relationship that was very important to me, because this person wasn't happy with me and wasn't happy having any contact with me, and I just wanted this person to be happy again. I love this person with all of my heart. (Not romantically. He was like a brother to me.) I can't get over him. I want him to be in my life so bad. No matter how hard I try I can't forget about him and stop loving him. What should I do? How do I get over him? How do I make the hurting stop?
2006-10-23 17:45:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Start hanging out with other friends, distract yourself with something else. Try not to think too much about your friend. You need to get a boyfriend because this past friend sounds more like a best friend than a boyfriend. You can join a gym or volunteer somewhere to keep yourself busy.
2006-10-23 17:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Veronica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my best guy friends started dated a girl that I don't get along with, we haven't talked in a couple of years. Actually, he has never seen my 2 year old, because of her. Every time that something happens, good or bad, I wish he was here, but he is not. my point is, it will never stop hurting. I lost Johnny over 2 years ago and I still miss him every day. the sad part is he live about 2 miles from me and never comes by or calls. So I know how you feel.
2006-10-23 17:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by knlsmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what broke up your friendship but you cannot chase someone. If they have feelings for you they will contact you..If they do...don't go overboard. Bee cool. If the person hates you...he will never come back.
Remember one thing....A man is where he wants to be...no amount of begging will make him stay and no amount of pushing will make him leave.
If you just work on your own personality...the only thing you can control...this person may notice or someone even better will come by.
Smile more..get involved with a hobby....do more for you...a brisk walk every day..some gardening...a dance class....anything to make you happy.
2006-10-23 17:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by debbie2243 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus your mind on other things no matter what it may be.being single youll find out is more fun anyway. and remember dont take anything that u have steadfast in your life for granted .and allways stay strait and everything else will fall in place
2006-10-23 17:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by baldheadedfreak1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get hurt. enough to sned you to the hospital for a couple of days, he will be there by your bedside and you will reconnect. you dont even have to say it was because of him, it was simply an acciden ; ) RIGHT??
2006-10-23 18:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by the_bifanatorv2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question,best answer,,,start dating, youll forget he is even alive,,,trust me. good luck.
2006-10-23 17:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by alleycat46534 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋