We are currently separated, and I know this may sound lame, but I am trying to make sense of things and I really am concerned that he may be struggling with the thought of being gay. His father was gay but didnt come out until later. He died a few years ago of aids.( He was a truck driver. My husband is a truck driver and is determined to follow in his dads footsteps in that aspect.) I have always thought my husband was a bit too overly negative about gay'ism'. The reason we are separated is because my husband has simply no interest or love for me. He says, 'I can't give you what you want. I just don't love you. I never really did.' He's always had an unusual excitment for bjs and anal sex, and hardly any enthusiasm for the 'natural' intercourse. He confided to me once that he almost got a bj from an anonymous trucker, but that he chickened out and never even met the guy. I wonder?. He's never really had a strong sex drive, but has had a porn fettish that he keeps very private. help.
2006-10-23 17:40:25 · 8 answers · asked by summgirl5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Does it really matter if he is? You are separated and he doesn't love you. Let him live his own life and you get on with yours.
2006-10-23 17:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may not be homosexual but anything that is considered taboo can be alluring. Maybee he is not sure what he wants but being on the road and driving a truck leaves a lot of room for all kinds of temptations. You should confront him about it. If he has messed around with anyone male or female you have a right to know. You are married and whatever he does affects you also. Hopefully he hasnt but you should know the truth one way or the other.
2006-10-23 17:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep. He's got some gay-ness issues.
2006-10-23 17:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by Foss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is gay. And it sounds like you already know that....
2006-10-30 02:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could be a homo. If you don't have children you can find another man.
Don't try to change him, it won't work.
2006-10-23 18:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well... i guess you did the right thing. cuz he didn't love you anyway. appreciate the fact that he told you the truth .
2006-10-23 17:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by Spidergurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sounds like he has issues with his own sexuality, you need to discuss this with him.
2006-10-23 18:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by Smith Jerrod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gay.
2006-10-23 17:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋