Im 17 my names josh, and I live in FL. I am going to a school so i can get my high school diploma in may. I am so tired or everything of just going to school i want to have like 50 friends and i want to have have sex like everyday i want to know alot of girls i want to see the world i want to go to japan and meet girls i want to learn bout them i want to stay in the US i want to hear great music and sing and live a great life i want to meet someone online i want to have sex just to have sex and than i want to have sex beacuse i love u i want to play football and magic and hang with my old friends on my street and im want to hang with old x gf's and party. get to no there parents. i want to make money. i want to be beautyful and loved. HOW CAN I DO THIS
2006-10-23 16:51:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
It's a trade off, Josh. You can't do absolutely everything on your list in a short time, so chose one or two things to go after first, like say 'go to Japan and meet girls' and then think of ways to make that become a reality. One way might be to become a musician or a teacher, or a tour guide...
Basically, you need a short list of what you want to do first and work towards that.
2006-10-23 16:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by Bart S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fine . Nothing wrong in just thinking . But along with this please do a parallel thinking and compare the two. at the end of it , if you are honest to yourself, you will get an answer as to what to do.
Go and have cups of icecream after icecream. See when you start to hate the icecream... 3 rd cup or the fourth cup. Ask why the same icecream that you liked soooooooosooooo much you, now, do not like. Ask your self a question, whether by any chance , your sex icecream could also turn out to be like that.
Your 50 friends will vanish once you are not able to get them icecreams. They will have their own priorities.
Ponder over your wants , wants ,wants and wants. There will be no end to this list after you exhaust all your current list.
The only thing that you will never be tired of is what you have listed last. LOVE. you can have any amount and that is in short supply.I would say , start with your last wish and go up. Love your family, your friends , your teacher....... love your body too.Step by step process is the opnly sure way of achieveing what you want.Do you think Bill gates became rich in a week? Do you think Bill gates children are rich just because their father is rich?
think.
2006-10-23 17:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by YD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, Josh, control those hormones long enough to get that diploma - it'll be tough, but you can take care of your own needs if you can't get a girlfriend. For the rest, jump a freighter - there's plenty of big ships looking for help. That way you'll see the world. You could join the navy - they'll pay for your education, then you'll make big bucks for the rest of your life. You sound like a guy with a lot of energy, so my advice is to channel it - have as much fun as you can (you're young) but find at least one realistic goal. Good luck, and have fun!
2006-10-23 17:14:40 · answer #3 · answered by Miz Teri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her and try and get her to talk to her parents... By her talking to them gives her more options on wether or not she wants to keep it or even adoption she has more options now than she will later. Her parents will find out eventually just make sure it's not to late. And be a good friend and try and help/guide her to make the choices she wants and not what anyone "wants" her to do because she am has to deal with it later on in life no matter what she decides... And like the girl before said her parents will grow to the idea and yes there's a chance they'll loose it but the won't hurt her or the baby. So encourage her to make her decisions that will benefit her in the end.
2016-05-22 03:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like you are a typical 17 year old boy.hopefully you will mature and go thru changes over the next ten years and have different,less selfish priorities and not stay forever 17.guys like that carry too much baggage and quite often find themselves alone and in a constant state of turmoil(women too).i don't see a problem now but if you were to ask this question again a few years from now i would say run to the nearest therapist.good luck P.S. there is an old saying that rarely do we get what we want,instead we get what we need
2006-10-24 05:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by kimmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey just listen to everyone else get a good education and enjoy your life, and you have to choose one or the other from time to time, but in the end you might do all the things you want. trust me I know. I graduate high school, I'm going to japan, I'm learning all different cultures tur food, and I have been there and done that, just give it time. You have all the time in the world.
2006-10-23 18:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by brandyliliy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 17, you have plenty of time to do it all. Get a good education for the future, and all the rest is yours. Enjoy life, be good, be kind and Love. You will do well.
2006-10-23 16:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by tonks_op 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Win the lottery. That or enter a state of complete delirium.
2006-10-23 16:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by Nipivy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish school. Learn to play guitar and put all those wishes into a song.....
2006-10-23 17:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by Valerie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to college and get a PhD, make so dough but be carry for all those women, ever hear about alimony and child support
2006-10-23 17:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by blue_eyed_southernman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋