Ok, see my sister (17 yrs old) is pregnant. My mom says she has never had a bad feeling about any of us having babies (My mom had 6 girls and 1 boy). But she says she has a really bad feeling for my lil sister. that she is so scared about her being pregnant. My mom never says things like this so what could it mean?
Thanks and please no rude remarks about my lil' sister.
2006-10-23 16:36:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It means that your mother is nervous about the safety and welfare of the baby to be and your sister. Having 7 kids your mom knows what goes into giving birth and caring for children. She knows it can be a scary thing and wants both your sister and the baby to be happy.
Hails to the children,
Silence
2006-10-23 16:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by Silent One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone has a bad feeling about something, it generally indicates that their experience of situations like that have been negative, or that they foresee worse situations arising from that occurrence. In your mother's case, maybe your sister is having a child in different circumstances than your mother had her kids in. Was your mom married when she became pregnant? Is your sister married? How old was your mom when she had her first? In addition, the world we live in now is a lot different than 20 years ago, and maybe your mom just doesnt think it is a good situation that your sister is bringing a child into this world in the circumstances that she is in.
Best of luck to your family.
2006-10-23 23:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by sciencequeen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beautiful,
It is already not an optimum situation. Mom knows more than most how many things can go wrong. Moms worry. No one can stop events from taking a course when we have no way of knowing what is going to happen next, not for sure. Your sis's youth puts her at risk. Her mental and emotional state put her at risk. She has a large and loving family. I'd say there are sufficient care givers to lighten her load. And you both have a phenomenal Mom. Because you stated that "Mom never says things like this", it is not a premonition. Your Mom is stressed and might blame herself. Very human. You can only do so much. Here is an excerpt from one of my poems; .."events met with a heart of trust."
2006-10-23 23:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always interpreted bad feelings as intuition. I hope everything works out okay for your sister. Your mom could be simply projecting her fears of her still teenage daughter being pregnant, but it could also be something a little more urgent.
Advise your sister to get her health checked at the doctor. They ususally do that, anyway, so everything will probably be okay.
My hopes & prayers are with you!
2006-10-23 23:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by anabandana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moms are in tune with their children on a vibrational level. Maybe your sis has some health probs or due to the pregnancy she will contract some. It is better to tell your mom that she should react and feel positive about the life coming. Because although the child is not born they are in the same vibrational pattern.
2006-10-24 00:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by A F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is just my opinion as a mother, but I think she is feeling this way because she is SO afraid for her daughter to go through a pregnancy simply because of how scary and life changing it can be. I honestly think she is just scared for your sister. I know that with my son, I used to get feelings of horrible things happening and I noticed that it was always around the times that he was going through life's milestones. For me, I think it was just that I was afraid for him to have to grow up and have responsibilities or to have to face difficulties or pain in life. He is fine, regardless of the "bad feelings" I have had. I'm sure I've aged myself a lot more than I needed to with all the worry though.
It will be impossible for you mom not to worry though, so just make sure that your sister keeps her up to date with everything that is happening with her and the baby and includes her in as much as she can. That way your mom can see for herself that things are going smoothly. And give your mom a hug as often as you can. Moms love that.
Congratulations on being a future aunt.
2006-10-23 23:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Goddess Kitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is concerned about the welfare of your sister and her child-to-be. It may be that she may be worried about their health, their financial ability or a feeling that she herself may have to end up raising the child because she may be concerned that your sister may not be able to care for the child herself. Hope all works out well whatever the circumstances. Thank you for your question.
2006-10-23 23:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by BrowBrat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad Ju-Ju
2006-10-24 00:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by Mountain_Warrior 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋