Plz serious anwser only and try to keep it in this era
not like "Are u a friend of dorthy ?" i dont think most ppl would catch on
2006-10-23 16:29:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I know what you mean, where I work there is this really HOT HOT guy and I kinda think he is but everyone says Nah! he's not but there's like a vibe or something... I think the best thing (and yes i think this is what I would do) Start making a nice conversation, greet him, whats up, and see how he reacts, most gay guys are friendly, im not categorizing or stereotyping but its true that most straight guys kinda freak out a little when another dude makes conversation out of nowhere (unless they are drunk, but thats another story lol) Ok anyways, well just keep a good conversation flowing... if you see this guy often, well say hi everytime u see him and then eventually when u consider an appropriate time... tell him a little about you, i mean so that he knows you are gay and see how he responds to it... and if still u dont got a clue... well do the question just like that... with a little touch maybe.. good luck!! =D
2006-10-23 20:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by antoni_m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask if they are gay, or go ahead and come out to them first.
I used to ask what clubs they went to on the weekends when I lived in a big city. OR make mention of the gay district in town and see what opens up form there. Like, I saw a car accident on Cedar Springs last night". OR, I went to West Hollywood for dinner and we had a great time". You can be creative, but definitely be direct and forward about it.
2006-10-23 17:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a bunch of good answers on here, but my approach to guys that I have found intersting is to walk up to them and let them know that I find them very attractive and was interested in going out with them.
Alot of people are more acceptable of gays so even if they aren't gay I have had guys turn me down but they respected the way I asked them, I didn't just come up to them and start groping them or anything.
2006-10-23 18:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by Tigrecub82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you think it's interesting how most people have this need to know whether or not if someone's gay. No matter if they are gay or straight, everyone can relate to that. The conversation will flow after that icebreaker. If it doesn't, then your friend is hiding something.
2006-10-23 19:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by flip4it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if some one is gay they dont admit it untill half the world already knows so there really isn't a question but their are things you can do to test it. For one you could ride the subway or carpull with him to work see how he socializes with other males. Thier will be things you notice ussualy their voice is especially high pitched and they talk really fast. ask some one gay that you already know he might be of some help to you
Good luck finding the question
-ZALiMAN
2006-10-23 16:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by ZALiMAN 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This might not sound like it, but it is a serious answer...walk up to the person in question and ask the following, "Without meaning any offense, I was just wondering if you live your life in the gay liestyle?" It is direct, respectful and to the point.
2006-10-23 16:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mav 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For females, "so, do u play softball?" or " R u married?" are always good ones.
For men, " r u married?" or do the shoe check. Tell him something is on his shoe, if he picks up his foot and looks from the front, hes straight, if he picks his foot up and looks over his shoulder, hes gay. LOL. Sorry, thats not really reliable. But its funny!
2006-10-23 16:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are talking just bring up the sex subject, then say, "I wish I knew someone who was bi or gay, cause I've got a couple of questions I'd like to ask". This gives him the opening. If he says "what's the question?", you say "Would they be willing to do something with me?"
2006-10-24 02:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about " I have heard mention of your sexual preferences, can I ask what they may be ? " pretty much the direct approach in a non threatning way of words.. Or you can try " Hey Are You By Chance Gay ? "
2006-10-23 21:30:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straightforward "Are you gay?" works best for me. I don't need to ask in code, if I really wanted to know.
2006-10-24 07:19:14 · answer #10 · answered by ByTheSea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋