Ok I am a 14 year old guy that I like. He is cute, funny, smart and we really connect. Well feels like sometimes, well actually alot of times he flirts with me and I do flirt back and it feels real. I wanted to make a move, so I asked my best friend to ask this guy if he had a problem with gay people, he said no but he just didn't talk to them. I thought he was gay, because he does act kind of feminine and people says he is, and me and him together feel, right. After that comment do you think maybe he is straight, or maybe he could just be hiding it. There is still part of me saying that maybe he is just trying to cover up, but i don't know. What do you think?
2006-10-23 16:19:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think if he's a good friend you should come out to him and let him know that you are gay. He will be surprised but it's a easier bombshell than telling him that you want him. Once he knows you are gay he may be more open with you to ask you questions about the gay lifestyle.
If he does start asking questions I would assume, he may be curious about his sexuality and is itching for answers.
2006-10-23 18:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by Tigrecub82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your move.....especailly if you play around and flirt with each other...before he finds someone else and you loose him. especially when you both have already gone this far. Being this young and still experimenting your sexuality is the best thing you can do and is a natural thing...no boy can say they never played and show their family jewel to another boy to see who's was bigger or who can pee the farthest...We did, and when we got to the age where it started getting erect and didn't know better and trying to figure out why it was doing that, which eventually led to stroking and feeling each other..Most grew up getting married and raising kids and most became gay because of the feelings and the yearning to continue exploring the male human body.. I still enjoy going to the gym just to view god's creation the almighty penis, cock, or whatever you want to call it...Today's young people have a different language and slangs we older folks never heard and don't know.
2006-10-23 23:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i know how u feel, ive had someone flirt with me and everyone says she is gay, but well its really hard to tell sometimes.. u just have to talk to them, and if they are a real friend it wont bother them at all, they will prolly just want u have ur limits with them. ur right, if he is, he is prolly tryin to hide it cuz at the age of 14 its really hard to just come out and say that ur gay... soo from the way it sounds, hes prolly just hiding it.
2006-10-23 23:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by SiMPLY ME<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way you will know for sure is to ask....he may be afraid of "coming out"..so if you do ask yo umay not even get the right answer or at least the one you're looking for..besides if he can't feel good about himself or what his preference may be..then you dont' need that crap in your life...it can be hard enough...
2006-10-23 23:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by TWISTER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop worrying about relationships, or making "moves" on anyone. You are only 14, enjoy your freedom and childhood while it still lasts.
2006-10-23 23:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww this is sweet maybe u should just tell him ho0w u feel and if he is this great friend u say he is even if he dosent share the same feeling he will accept u <3
2006-10-23 23:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're talking about yourself?
2006-10-24 01:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋