you want to let them know but when you try to talk about it they get mad
2006-10-23 16:19:44 · 5 answers · asked by someoneyouknow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i take it by your other questions you are really not sure about your relationship, Trust is earned though month's and probably years. And then sometimes it seems never at all. Why are you so insecure? Has he done you so wrong? For so long? I know you said you have a baby together . Are you happy? Did you know if you aren't happy the baby isn't and chances are that if this has been going on for awhile then its time for a change. Tell him straight up what you feel and if he gets mad because you are expressing your feelings to help keep strong although sometimes we feel weak . sounds like you are very confused and you need to take a time out and let yourself think what is best not for you but also the baby. Do you want to raise your baby in a love/hate relationship? Do want your baby fretting at night and doing bad in school ? well this is what could happen. If you arent happy and there is no trost than thats really not a secure life for you or any child.talk to a family member, preacher or someone who is close to you to help you with this honey,I hope find what you need this isnt a really good place to ask questions much less to get answers that I really think you sincere about, Take care and may God Bless
2006-10-23 17:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by wewamom2503 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust him why would you want to be with him. You are just setting you your self up for a heart break. Let him stay in the child's life but you should move on.
2006-10-23 16:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there honey, I don't trust my man cause he cheated on me a few times and while he was cheating he didn't want to talk. It's hard being with someone you love and don't trust. If he want talk to you then yell at him and if he don't listen then I say just get the kid and leave he will listen then.
2006-10-23 16:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by Deb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be stern and tell them how you feel and if he don't listen then its time to move on and let him go....the child will bond you for life but that comes with children....the love never leaves but it does get better over time....and may be he thinks that he has to stay with you due to the child....not to put things in your head but that has happend to me be for and thats no fun being stringed along by feeling that you have and may be he don't have for you. just please don't down each other in front of the child or argue in front of him either it hurts the childrens feelings much less yours....good luck in what ever you do....:)
2006-10-23 16:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by wendy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you have a child and this person doesn't want to kno maybe just give it little while and see if he or she is the right one for you
2006-10-23 16:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by Madi H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋