why does he keep saying this?
i've been dating this guy for about three months and we have been very intimate with each other and every time we finish having sex he says .....oh the condom busted your probably getting pregnant right now.....or if i say my stomach hurts he'll say oh that's because your pregnant.....he keeps making comments about pregnancy or kids......he also says that he very very fertile all the time.......what is going on with him?
2006-10-23 16:16:49 · 13 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sounds like he wants to get you pregnant and he's making these comments about pregnancy all the time, just to see how you would react and I think he's also wants to see how you feel about having kids, especially his. If he's talking about pregnancy alot, you may want to make sure that he's not ripping the condoms on purpose. I think he's hinting that he wants you, to be the mother of kids. One thing you don't want to do, is have his baby, just to please him.
2006-10-23 16:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey make sure you use spermicidal condoms, he sounds like he wants to be a father. The truth is , you two should just enjoy each other, not worry about babies. the time may come when that will change,3 months is not long enough.If he says he's very very fertile,he's already got a family some where.Think of the positive and negative in this relationship.
2006-10-24 06:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt want to get you pregnant, trust me. he's just immature and this is his way of joking around. It's stupid, i know. But he doesnt want kids with you. My husband jokes with me every now and then. I'll say my stomach hurts and he'll say "i bet ur pregnant" he just does it to get a rise out of me. I dont want kids now and he knows that. I always talk about how i enjoy having money and my own life and that's why i dont want kids. it's just a joke. he doesnt want them either for the same reasons, but he'll joke about it.
my adive, get on the depo shot and MAKE SURE he doesnt get u pregnant.
also, he could want to know what your reaction would be if u did get pregnant. he probably wants to know if u would keep it or have an abortion. talk about it with him. ask him what he would want u to do if u got pregnant. are u both ready to have a kid? doubt it. do both of u a favor and get on a regulated birth control, the ring, or shot, or pill.
2006-10-23 16:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by ur a Dee Dee Dee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would agree that he is either a jackass or wants you to get pregnant. I would watch out, if you are not ready for a baby...
if he really wants one, who is to say he might not do something to the condoms to make sure you do get pregnant. If you want to stay with him, you might want to get some protection that YOU are in control of (birth control).
2006-10-23 16:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by Pronex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what's up with his pregnancy obsession. Either he really wants to impregnate you, he's terrified of empregnating you or he just has a really dull sense of humor. On the other hand, why are you always remembering his comments about pregnancy... could it just be selective hearing?
2006-10-23 16:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by Mmmmm 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to chances with someone you've only been dating for 3 months. if he really wants to get you pregnant then why doesn't he treat you respectfully & marry you first? fooling around with a guy who wants to get you pregnant or doesn't care if he does is very irresponsible & I know you can do better than this.
2006-10-23 16:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by chit-chaat7 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer recognize its stupid and retarded. God loves all and sundry. would not count while you're gay. :P He nevertheless loves you, no count what. i think of that the bible prompt some human beings the incorrect way. you recognize? i'm a Christian...yet, no longer precisely the style of Christian you think of. haha. Its strange, i think in God with all my heart and that i think interior the Bible...merely no longer each and every little thing the Bible talks approximately. some issues i think of are merely made up stuff.
2016-12-28 03:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by goldie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be asking him this not us because not everything that you ask everyone else can answer. This is something that you guys should be talking about face to face. If you brought him to a counselor that is different but don't believe people you don't know.
2006-10-23 16:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by shawNAYYYY<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds weird he sounds very juvenile. You should stop seeing him it sounds like he wants to trap you or trick you into pregnancy drop him he sounds annoying!
2006-10-23 16:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by dee 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are having sex with a jackass. Dont feel bad, it happens, but stopping now would be better in the long run.
2006-10-23 16:18:42 · answer #10 · answered by n2bateyou2000 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋