if my best freinds ex wanted to go out with me what should i do. she broke up with him cus She SHE DIDN'T LIKE HIM.i like him a little though.she is like a sister to me what now? i asked her if she cared and she said no to take him if i wanted should i? i know her very well and when she doesn't mind she says it. They broke up 9months ago.THey only went out cause her sister dared her to.
2006-10-23 16:05:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she didn't and doesn't like him and i asked her 7 times if shedidn't care annd she specifically said no i don't care u cuoold have him if u want
2006-10-23 16:15:09 · update #1
Well, if you don't care and she doesn't care then who does?
2006-10-23 16:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uhhh if she never liked him, obviously she didnt you said she didnt, for one, and her sis dared her to..yea go with him.. relationships can sometimes form in a small group(usually not a huge crowd, i mean like from 1 friend to another) when they realize they like the other person, if my friend was crazy about a guy, i would never think about it, but if they werent all crazy then i would consider it, its who you like, even if she would be a little upset, she wouldn't set there and hate you just for that, unless she's not a true friend, i have figured out what a true friend is, and lets just say now i know not to tell my secrets to anyone, but 1 person ever. because friends suck...i'll say it blunt..if they arent true to you they suck. best friends who are true are good, they wont care about another guy, even if they did like him, they'll get over it. and sometimes i would say the words you should risk it, if they were leary, because friends can come and go, but if they truely care about you, they'll come right back..i've had a little drama in 9th grade that i wont mention on here, so i've figured out what real friends are. yea well half of this had nothing to do with your question, heh sorry got carried away i guess
2006-10-23 16:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by ღ❤Crystal❤ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she specifically said "No, she doesn't care, that you can take him if you want to."
If I were you, I would go for it because you live your life once. You are fair to her.
Most importantly, you don't want to look back and said, "I should have taken it when I had the chance."
2006-10-23 16:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really don"t care and you liked him then go. Ask her one more time and tell her you are feeling him. If she is like a sister and she really don't like him then she shouldn't mind.
2006-10-23 16:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by heaven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if she says take him you take him if she gets mad at you tell her she said you can take him.2nd if she didn't like him she shouldn't care.3rd if she is a good friend she would care about your feelings and how you feel about this guy so she would let you have him.
2006-10-23 16:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by alexis j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jointly as he hangs out together with his pals, you pass carry close out which includes your pals! and if he needs you lower back, say you're busy cuz you made plans which includes your pals already. save doing that and whilst he gets mad, tell him that that grew to become into what he grew to become into doing to you the full time and with any luck, you men can like comprehend one yet another :] wish this facilitates! :]
2016-11-25 01:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want him, take him! but first ask your best friend if its truly ok with her. you dont want her to be mad at you for taking her ex, becuz that can hurt sometimes. and if they only went out becuz her sister dared her too then it probaly wasnt true love and if its been nine months, shouldnt she be over it by now? since she didnt intend to date him in the first place?
2006-10-23 16:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by f.o.b<3(: 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why not go out with him in a group. less threatening. you can still be together, less pressure, and your good friend will take less offence at a group thing. you may discover, hey he's really nice. or boy, I know now why she dropped this hot potato.
best wishes,
frankie c.
2006-10-23 16:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by frankiechocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend does not care go for it
2006-10-23 16:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait wait wait! so her sister dared them to go out? so was it a tru relationship did they like each other?? if they did and they brok up 9 months ago it shud be fine cuz if they just brok up then they wud be mad at each other and sometimes they dont know wut they are saying. so it shud be fine.
2006-10-23 16:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, who means more to you? It's not every day u find a "best friend". Is the guy worth it?
2006-10-23 16:07:18 · answer #11 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋