Say, your boyfriend is out of town, out of the country, etc. Is it worth to trust him, understand him and believe that he still loves you if he tends to ignore your messages? Does anyone find it hard to reply or send at least one message a day to your love one even if it is your most busiest day? Even a minute of hi and hello, at least.
2006-10-23 15:56:09 · 12 answers · asked by Diane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
haha..my bf is the same...well, guys r like that. sometimes they are just busy. they have different perceptions about things..we may consider that a message shows that we miss him n stuff, but to guys, they assume that u already know that. give him some space...sometimes girls message things like i already had my dinner..how about u, n things like that. but to them, its like, ok, i'm not a baby, i know when to eat...he misses u actually, n believe me, when he's back in town he'll shower u with love. u should trust him if u love him....
2006-10-23 16:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by nini moreal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay you seem to know the answer here, it looks to me like he doesn't really have time for you. Now I am not too sure what he is doing out of town, work?? But there is always a time in the day to call someone, before he leaves the hotel, as he is driving somewhere. THere is NO excuse, he could at least say Hi, I am running late I have to go. Bam that was like a 5 second conversation. You should talk to him and let him know that it bugs you. If he doens't stop, I suggest you find a guy who will have time to call you. ITs not that hard for someone to do, if he loves you he will do it.
2006-10-23 16:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, no matter where someone is, when they love someone else, they will always stay in touch. No question, no doubts. That is the absolute truth. There is no reason for someone not to call you and say I love you and how are you doing, or I miss you, I can't wait to get home to you. If you have not heard these words from him, he is not in love with you. I'm sorry to say this, but if you talk to your Mom or Dad, they will tell you the same thing. Move on to someone who is great, loving and devoted to you. You deserve this from life.
2006-10-23 16:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by doris_38133 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyday ? .. Unless you are about to get married.. I'd say you are over doing it with him. Give him some space. If he doesn't message you on his own within a period of 5 to 7 days , then you know he isn't into you that much. Stop messaging him .. you are coming off as way too needy. Good Luck ! :)
2006-10-23 16:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh I think that you are way more into him than he is into you. If he ignores your messages I would say that he is basically taking you for granted - he knows you will be there waiting for him even if he doesn't feel like answering you. You can do better than someone like that.
2006-10-23 15:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by skepticseeksmystic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF A GUYS LOVES YOU,,,, YOU KNOW IT. HE ISN'T GETTING BACK TO YOU BECAUSE HE IS TOO BUSY WITH SOMEONE ELSE MORE THAN LIKELY. IF HE TRYS TO GET AHOLD OF YOU DON'T JUMP AND RESPOND RIGHT BACK. I THINK YOU NEED TO STOP TRYING TO GET AHOLD OF HIM AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS. MOVE ON. SORRY, I KNOW THAT HURTS. GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-23 16:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See how he treats you when he gets back. You can tell then.
2006-10-23 15:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't wait for him. You need to move on.
2006-10-23 16:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm hello to my world..... i like this girls ..she like me when i jus moved in to school ..when i foun out her E-mail send her one ...when she ......well she think im anoying to her..
2006-10-23 16:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by Goliath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be busy.
2006-10-23 15:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋