Me and my signifigant other {husband} decided to purchase a car
because the one that we had broke down . we go to the dealer and they set us up with a 500.00 down payment and a car payment ok mommas boy{husband] dosnt realize that the payment is due so what does he do reily on me to come up with it {i was thinking half not all right] so know hes spent all his money and expects me to go to the dealer and tell him we dont have the money iam thinkin well lets give it back and then decide what too do so now hes worryied about how is he gonna get back and forth to work{the job i got him} what do you think ???????
2006-10-23 15:50:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is like a frekin delemma
2006-10-23 15:53:04 · update #1
if you can give me some answers tonight i would greatly appricate it!!!!!
2006-10-23 15:59:52 · update #2
He is using you and his mother to get what he wants. It is time to cut the cords. Let HIM take the car back and tell him to ride the bus to work. He will never learn if everyone always bails him out.
2006-10-23 16:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by CahabaLily 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say take the car back to the dealership. If you go back to the dealer they will work out something with you to get the down payment. But first talk to your husband about how you feel about the situation. Isn't it your car together? So you should pay for it together. That means you get to drive it too. Let him know it was your understanding that the two of you would make the down payment together. He should not only be concerned about how he is gonna get to work. What about you? I don't mean to sound cold or rude. But it seems like your husband is a little selfish. Let him know how you really feel. Not only about the car but discuss his behavior and why you call him a Mommas Boy.... Best of Luck to you...
2006-10-23 23:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by msladykm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These car dealers want to work with you. they have already cashed the big check from the bank i.e. (financing) Pay the down payment at your leisure but don't be late on your payments or your credit gets screwed up.You need to check your head man, the way you talk about your husband, i mean you obviously don't respect him. He sounds like a F*** up! GOOD LUCK
2006-10-23 22:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by JAY J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is your husband 18 yet?He sounds like a 12 yr old to me!
Take back the car and let him figure out how to go to work.It's time he started to have a bit of responsibility even only to himself.I hope you don't have kids yet or else, poor kid!
2006-10-23 22:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by ivy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey if you take it back it will ruin your credit...and trust me your life with bad credit is gonna be crappy. I think you need to find a way to make the payment this time and tell him that he is gonna have to make the payment next month
2006-10-23 22:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by xxsanchabonitaxx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Usually when you get married, the money is shared towards a common goal. If you have seperate bank accounts, and pay bills seperatly, you need to rethink your marriage.
2006-10-23 22:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by Shoopedoop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should not have to carry the load for his choices, and always be the responsible one, he needs to grow up, and if he doesn't i don't see much hope. he was mostlikely not given any boundaries when he was growing up, and his parents handled everything so he never had to suffer any consequences, but it's your credit that will be ruioned also.
2006-10-23 23:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a mommas boy... he needs to take responsibility for his actions....be a man for a change.
2006-10-23 22:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get some balls and pay for the car that he will use!
2006-10-23 23:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time that your significant other grows-up.
2006-10-23 22:54:23 · answer #10 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋