like yeah i know that it seems all easy to say no....but really it isn't! i mean what if there's this guy u like a whole lot? but he keeps telling you he wants to have sex...but you think that that is all he wants! how can you tell vecause hes really sweet but idk and we live almost 300 miles away i just really need to get over him but i dont know how...and learn how to give someone else a chance!
HELP
2006-10-23 15:47:09 · 10 answers · asked by KyKy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
From a guy's point of view here I know if he really loved you he'd wait. I know I would. Anyway just say your not ready, and if he doesn't accept that he's not worth your time in the first place. Hope it goes well for you.
2006-10-23 15:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by # 81 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start seeing other people. Be rational and realize that you can't have a successful relationship 300 miles apart. If he really loved you, he would change that 300 miles to 3! 300 miles away, how do you know what he's doing every minute? HOW CAN YOU LOVE THAT?
2006-10-23 22:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by the one who knows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer: JUST SAY NO!!!!!!! If he REALLY loved you and cared for you, he'd wait til you're come to a decision. If YOU really have any respect for yourself, don't let his pressuring fool you. All men are sweet when they "want" it. I don't like to be negative here but if you live 300 miles apart, it's more likely the relationship won't last.
2006-10-23 22:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy to say no!! Did you think before you wrote this? So you feel it's difficult to say no to someone to spare their feelings...what about your feelings? If he keeps telling you he wants to have sex, he's pressuring you knowing he'll eventually get his way. You sound too young to be having sex. The answer is NO, stick to it and you will be grateful in the future.
2006-10-23 22:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by hairstylist1970 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes or loves you, he'll wait till yr ready. Having sex with someone is a choice not a demand.
2006-10-23 22:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is that difficult to say NO unless u urself is also diriven by Sex. U must say it with conviction and mean it.
2006-10-23 22:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by devil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your ex just tested positive for herpes and your results haven't come in yet. If that guy doesn't run away screaming then he really likes you.
2006-10-23 22:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by jipsi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if all he ever talks about it having sex with you. then that really is probably all he wants from you. tell him you aren't ready to have sex. if you think thats all he wants then that is the last person you want to have sex with. you have to tell him that you dont want to have sex with him, or you aren't ready to have sex something like that.
2006-10-23 22:49:22 · answer #8 · answered by my101201cutiepie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"NO" Write it down if you have too. Give me his address and I will tell him for you.
2006-10-23 22:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by hoover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask sum1 out and say, sry i'm datin some1 alredi.
2006-10-23 22:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by Tay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋